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spinbaby

(15,389 posts)
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 06:59 AM Jun 2022

Can anyone recommend a beginning cookbook?

I’m teaching an adult with autism to cook something beyond microwave meals and am finding that he needs incredibly detailed instructions and they need to be written down. He likes to cook microwave meals precisely because the instructions on the package are very clear and explicit. I wrote down instructions for scrambled eggs for him that took an entire page. He’s very uncomfortable with the fact that I can’t provide an EXACT amount of time to cook the eggs. Somewhere out there is a cookbook for beginners that has very detailed instructions, preferably with pictures. Any recommendations?

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Can anyone recommend a beginning cookbook? (Original Post) spinbaby Jun 2022 OP
well, there is a reason most of us grew up on Betty Crocker to learn, rather than Julia Child... hlthe2b Jun 2022 #1
i guess my mom had a betty crocker rampartc Jun 2022 #7
You might want to see if there are books for kids wryter2000 Jun 2022 #2
A second on the Betty Crocker cookbook. gibraltar72 Jun 2022 #3
The joy of cooking is what I learned from... essaynnc Jun 2022 #4
I learned from Joy, too spinbaby Jun 2022 #6
Fanny Farmer jpak Jun 2022 #5
Betty Crocker and Better Homes Nikossitti Jun 2022 #8
I wonder if he would enjoy working from a Cooks Illustrated magazine issue cyclonefence Jun 2022 #9
Pasta salads : user friendly. Tetrachloride Jun 2022 #10
I time my egg with the toaster Marthe48 Jun 2022 #17
Carrot cake. Spinach lasagna Tetrachloride Jun 2022 #11
Google "autism cookbooks", plenty of options to choose from. n/t werdna Jun 2022 #12
Really, there's such a thing? spinbaby Jun 2022 #13
"Cookbooks for special needs adults" is much more productive. sir pball Jun 2022 #22
We'll, that was disappointing spinbaby Jun 2022 #14
a friend of mine gave me a cook book a while back . its title is: AllaN01Bear Jun 2022 #15
The Starving Artist's Cookbook PJMcK Jun 2022 #16
If he likes using a timer Marthe48 Jun 2022 #18
You might try either the America's Test Kitchen or Cooks Country rsdsharp Jun 2022 #19
Better Homes & Gardens ReluctanceTango Jun 2022 #20
Try your local library Retrograde Jun 2022 #21
Look at cookbooks aimed at children. PoindexterOglethorpe Jun 2022 #23
I have a cookbook...old that is a step by step cookbook...very basic. I will see if it is still Demsrule86 Jun 2022 #24
Thank you for the offer spinbaby Jun 2022 #26
The magical phrase turns out to be... spinbaby Jun 2022 #25

hlthe2b

(113,956 posts)
1. well, there is a reason most of us grew up on Betty Crocker to learn, rather than Julia Child...
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 07:05 AM
Jun 2022

Simplicity. But if you peruse the cookbook shelves of your local Barnes & Nobles I think you will find a plethora of simplistic step-by-step instructional cookbooks, differing mostly by the type of food featured.

Nice of you to help teach this person. Good luck.

rampartc

(5,835 posts)
7. i guess my mom had a betty crocker
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 07:29 AM
Jun 2022

and one of local recipes (as well as her old notes from her mom and neighbors);

my wife uses betty crocker and also better homes and gardens

joy of cooking is incredible, but not for your application.

mom started me on breakfast. boiling eggs. grits and such. it is easy to do. teaches basic skills, and the dpg loves when you make a mistake.

gibraltar72

(7,629 posts)
3. A second on the Betty Crocker cookbook.
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 07:10 AM
Jun 2022

complete instructions and pictures. I think ours was a wedding gift.

essaynnc

(985 posts)
4. The joy of cooking is what I learned from...
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 07:13 AM
Jun 2022

Tons and tons of basic knowledge, ideas, and information, but can be a little dated..

Nikossitti

(341 posts)
8. Betty Crocker and Better Homes
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 07:53 AM
Jun 2022

Betty C and Better Homes are both great for beginners. I know Better Homes has a children’s version (probably Betty, too), which I bought for my daughters.

cyclonefence

(5,151 posts)
9. I wonder if he would enjoy working from a Cooks Illustrated magazine issue
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 07:54 AM
Jun 2022

Not only are the recipe instructions pretty detailed (I think he might appreciate the reliance on an instant-read thermometer) but each recipe is preceded by an explanation of "why this recipe works," explaining how the ingredients were tested to arrive at the flavor desired. Some of the more complicated dishes might really make him proud--I know they make me proud!

Tetrachloride

(9,623 posts)
10. Pasta salads : user friendly.
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 08:41 AM
Jun 2022

The only thing that needs high clarity is the pasta.

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Scrambled eggs give me trouble also. Oil and fry pan temperature and egg mixture vary. plus distractions. I don’t like standing.

——/

Tomato sauces are user friendly.

Marthe48

(23,175 posts)
17. I time my egg with the toaster
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 09:51 AM
Jun 2022

I usually make a 1 egg omelet with cheese. I put the bread in the toaster, and mix the egg with a tsp of water, and pour it into the heating pan, add s&p, then the cheese. Then I start the toast. When it pops, my egg is done. Once in a while, I cook an egg over easy, and it works for that too.

sir pball

(5,340 posts)
22. "Cookbooks for special needs adults" is much more productive.
Sun Jun 19, 2022, 01:47 PM
Jun 2022

These came up right off the bat, I'm sure a deeper dive would.get you plenty more. Cheers!

Let's Cook!, Revised Edition: 55 Quick and Easy Recipes for People with Intellectual Disability https://a.co/d/0jYdW20

Accessible Chef https://accessiblechef.com/

Look, Cook, and Eat https://www.lookcookandeat.com/

spinbaby

(15,389 posts)
14. We'll, that was disappointing
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 09:14 AM
Jun 2022

Autism cookbooks seem to be All about cooking special diets that are supposed to be good for autism.

AllaN01Bear

(29,486 posts)
15. a friend of mine gave me a cook book a while back . its title is:
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 09:21 AM
Jun 2022

discovering cooking by tim an parker. depending on the level the person is . this book was meant for children

https://www.amazon.com/Discovering-Cooking-Tim-Ann-Parker/dp/B001835274

there are other sellers on the internet.
edit: was meant for children.

PJMcK

(25,048 posts)
16. The Starving Artist's Cookbook
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 09:29 AM
Jun 2022

It’s a great beginner book with simple recipes for beginners. It’s written with a great wit and it’s terrific fun, too. This book also has many tips and hop in setting up a simple kitchen.

Good luck!

Marthe48

(23,175 posts)
18. If he likes using a timer
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 10:00 AM
Jun 2022

When you find recipes he can follow, he can set the timer for the various steps. I use the timer so I mix jello for exactly 2 minutes and other things like that. I pretty much set the timer for anything I cook. I'm used to all of my appliances, ingredients and meals, but the timer keeps me on track, so I don't burn the bread or undercook the chicken.

There are a lot of cooking videos on You Tube. Maybe you can watch some of those with the new cook and see which methods he likes, and choose a cookbook that way.

rsdsharp

(12,002 posts)
19. You might try either the America's Test Kitchen or Cooks Country
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 01:42 PM
Jun 2022

cookbooks. They are very detailed, almost persnickety, but if you follow the instructions, the recipe turns out every time.

 

ReluctanceTango

(219 posts)
20. Better Homes & Gardens
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 02:13 PM
Jun 2022

With the red & white gingham cover. Preferably in the binder, not the paperback. It has simple recipes, plus tons of helpful advice about measurements, substitutions, techniques, and more.

I still have my mom's BHG from 1973, and a later copy I got in the late 90s. Hers has held together for nearly 50 years now. The one from the 90s broke down after only 1 year of cooking.

Retrograde

(11,419 posts)
21. Try your local library
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 02:46 PM
Jun 2022

This will at least give you an idea of what's out there, and how detailed and specific the instructions are in different books. If they have cook books targeted at young adults take a look at those as well.

Borrowing the books will let him test out some recipes: if he likes the style of one, then you can actually spend the money to buy it (and any others in the series, if it's something like America's Test Kitchen)

This is how I've been buying cookbooks these past several years: if I read a review that sounds interesting, I'll borrow the book and see how likely I am to actually use it before buying it.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(28,493 posts)
23. Look at cookbooks aimed at children.
Mon Jun 20, 2022, 01:41 AM
Jun 2022

When my sons were young I got one of those and we used it so that they could fix meals for the family. Alas, I have no recollection of what that specific cookbook was, but surely there are several of them out there.

Demsrule86

(71,542 posts)
24. I have a cookbook...old that is a step by step cookbook...very basic. I will see if it is still
Mon Jun 20, 2022, 04:52 PM
Jun 2022

available. If not, I don't use it and would be willing to send it to you PM me.

spinbaby

(15,389 posts)
26. Thank you for the offer
Tue Jun 21, 2022, 08:54 AM
Jun 2022

But the solution seems to be, not a cookbook, but printing visual recipes from the Internet.

spinbaby

(15,389 posts)
25. The magical phrase turns out to be...
Tue Jun 21, 2022, 08:53 AM
Jun 2022

…visual recipes. It turns out that if you Google “visual recipes,” you get very detailed illustrated recipes intended for disabled persons. My guy doesn’t need pictures, but he loves the extreme detail.

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