Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

alfredo

(60,145 posts)
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 12:26 PM Feb 2021

5 years ago I got my feeding tube prepping me for treatment.

Yesterday I got my next to last MRI. All clear.
The cure made a mess out of me, but I beat the odds and every day I thank the doctors, nurses, and loved ones that stood by me. Of I can’t forget the great support I got here.

Thank you

24 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
5 years ago I got my feeding tube prepping me for treatment. (Original Post) alfredo Feb 2021 OP
Great news! MuseRider Feb 2021 #1
Thank you. I move slowly now due to my treatment, alfredo Feb 2021 #2
Slowly gets you there! MuseRider Feb 2021 #4
The unsteadiness will be with me til the end. alfredo Feb 2021 #17
Ahh, some kind of neck cancer MuseRider Feb 2021 #21
You never know your strengths until tested. alfredo Feb 2021 #22
Life is full of mysterious turns lostnfound Feb 2021 #8
It's been quite an experience. alfredo Feb 2021 #18
The best to you! CurtEastPoint Feb 2021 #3
Awesome news! Storybook612 Feb 2021 #5
As a Canadian poet once said: alfredo Feb 2021 #23
Good for you! AKwannabe Feb 2021 #6
YAY! Solly Mack Feb 2021 #7
It's also nice to see you are hanging in there. alfredo Feb 2021 #19
Congrats lillypaddle Feb 2021 #9
Excellent TNNurse Feb 2021 #10
Congrats! I'm still kicking 12 years after my Stage IV. sinkingfeeling Feb 2021 #11
I can't tell you what hope your post gives me! Staph Feb 2021 #14
Thank you for beating it! BobTheSubgenius Feb 2021 #12
Yeah, growing old is better than the alternatives. alfredo Feb 2021 #20
It almost always comes down to a team effort. Good job! marble falls Feb 2021 #13
Yay! Glad to hear it!!! CaptainTruth Feb 2021 #15
WOO! Skittles Feb 2021 #16
Thank you alfredo Mar 2021 #24

MuseRider

(34,382 posts)
1. Great news!
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 12:29 PM
Feb 2021

The cure can be awful but you are here and I am happy that you are!

Get ready to move on down the road from your illness. Such great news.

MuseRider

(34,382 posts)
4. Slowly gets you there!
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 12:37 PM
Feb 2021

I bet it all improves massively after all that treatment is over for a while and behind you. That stuff can knock an elephant flat! Here is to hoping that moving down the road gets easier as you go along. So happy you are going to keep going along!

alfredo

(60,145 posts)
17. The unsteadiness will be with me til the end.
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 12:05 AM
Feb 2021

The radiation damaged a part of my brain. It also paralyzed my epiglottis. My lymph nodes in my neck have been somewhat inconvenienced, and I have to massage them daily. think of it as an enforced hobby.

MuseRider

(34,382 posts)
21. Ahh, some kind of neck cancer
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 09:56 AM
Feb 2021

or throat. I have a lot of experience with that. I nursed my mother for 4 years. She had throat cancer. I also lost a friend to that. Those are tough roads. I am so happy you are a survivor and your attitude speaks volumes as to why. You inspire me with my little problems. Time to stop mopping around and just get on with it!

I guess there are all kinds of hobbies, why not this too? I am so sorry you have to deal with that but I cannot tell you how incredibly happy that comment made me. You are going to do very well, it will never be as easy as you would like but you are up to the task.

My respect.

alfredo

(60,145 posts)
22. You never know your strengths until tested.
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 12:19 PM
Feb 2021

I’ve accepted my state and seem happy.

The cancer was at the back of my tongue and on the right side of my neck.

At first I was told I could lose my tongue, but the cancer was external and hadn’t grown inward. No tongue would have had dramatic effects on my life. I could not say la la la or lu lu lu anymore.

lostnfound

(16,671 posts)
8. Life is full of mysterious turns
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 02:42 PM
Feb 2021

May you have unexpected blessings and meaningful experiences in your future.

Storybook612

(18 posts)
5. Awesome news!
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 12:37 PM
Feb 2021

I don't know you, but I've been on this cancer journey for three years now after numerous surgeries and removal of part of my colon. I can only imagine the joy you feel! Congratulations!

alfredo

(60,145 posts)
23. As a Canadian poet once said:
Fri Feb 26, 2021, 12:49 PM
Feb 2021

“It’s better to wear out than to rust out.”

Richard Cumberland

“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!”

― Hunter S. Thompson

Quotes that helped me weather the storm

TNNurse

(7,130 posts)
10. Excellent
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 02:49 PM
Feb 2021

I remember the day my oncologist said "You can come back once a year, but you do not have to...I won't do lab work".

I saw her two more times just for my own peace of mind. Then one day, I realized I was OK with not going.

Staph

(6,349 posts)
14. I can't tell you what hope your post gives me!
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 03:19 PM
Feb 2021

I was diagnosed with cancer eight years ago and it returned four years ago and two years ago. Knowing that I was Stage IV was a real kick in the butt.

But hearing from someone still going after 12 years . . . well, it gives me life!


BobTheSubgenius

(11,796 posts)
12. Thank you for beating it!
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 03:00 PM
Feb 2021

That DU would support you? A GIVEN, and no thanks are necessary for me...although I'm sure it gives you a warm feeling to be thankful.

Long life and happiness to you!!!

Latest Discussions»Support Forums»Cancer Support»5 years ago I got my feed...