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cally

(21,714 posts)
Thu Nov 9, 2023, 09:08 AM Nov 2023

"To Matthew Perry, God was a bunch of drunks in a Room"---Incredible Description of Recovery

Matthew Perry said that he wanted to be remembered as someone who helped people get sober, even more than he wanted to be remembered as a very funny, famous Friend. I think he’ll be remembered as both.

I know that I will always think of him that way. We met almost 40 years ago, and he was, by far, the funniest friend I ever had. He also was the person who helped me get sober.

He took me to my first A.A. meeting, in 2005. Matthew quit booze a few years before. He struggled with it, for sure. I didn’t need rehab, but I knew I had a very serious problem, so I called Matthew and asked him to take me to a meeting.

We went to this very big gathering in Brentwood, Calif. We walked in, and I swear it seemed there were a thousand people in there. He knew the look on my face — daunted. Beyond daunted: demoralized. It’s very hard to imagine how going into a room like that is somehow going to make you want to stop drinking or make you feel better. And he looked at me and said in his Matthew, half-joking, very loving way: “It’s something, isn’t it? God is a bunch of drunks together in a room.”

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/11/09/opinion/matthew-perry-addiction.html

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"To Matthew Perry, God was a bunch of drunks in a Room"---Incredible Description of Recovery (Original Post) cally Nov 2023 OP
No paywall. Very good read. underpants Nov 2023 #1
Thanks! cate94 Nov 2023 #4
Beautiful tribute MaryMagdaline Nov 2023 #2
What a beautiful tribute Docreed2003 Nov 2023 #3
GOD in AA is often referred to by many as Group of Drunks or Good Orderly Direction Bristlecone Nov 2023 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m Nov 2023 #6

Bristlecone

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5. GOD in AA is often referred to by many as Group of Drunks or Good Orderly Direction
Thu Nov 9, 2023, 07:27 PM
Nov 2023

Giving those who may struggle with the idea or concept of a higher power an Avenue that works for them. The support structure itself is your higher power. G.O.D.

At least in my experience.

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