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Anyone else (besides me) bothered by the many posts ... (Original Post) left-of-center2012 Nov 2020 OP
As someone who used booze as a crutch and a sedative, yes. liberalmuse Nov 2020 #1
Roadside ditches across rural 'Murika... luv2fly Nov 2020 #2
Agree completely! Rhiannon12866 Nov 2020 #3
No, their business, they maybe normies irisblue Nov 2020 #4
I think it was the writer John Cheever, who himself was a serious Mike 03 Nov 2020 #5
It doesn't bother me. Lots of people can drink responsibly JDC Nov 2020 #6
No. /nt progree Nov 2020 #7
Not really. A couple of years ago I'd use it as an excuse to drink even more than usual. bif Nov 2020 #8

liberalmuse

(18,876 posts)
1. As someone who used booze as a crutch and a sedative, yes.
Sat Nov 7, 2020, 09:47 AM
Nov 2020

I haven’t had a drink in almost 3 years and my life is all the better for it. A lot of people don’t have my dependency issues, thank god. I say celebrate in the way you see fit, as long as it doesn’t cause harm.

luv2fly

(2,486 posts)
2. Roadside ditches across rural 'Murika...
Sat Nov 7, 2020, 09:48 AM
Nov 2020

... reflect the same. Cheap beer cans, bottles and McDonald's trash.

It's everywhere, I see it as I ride my bike. Everywhere.

We are what we eat right.

Rhiannon12866

(222,843 posts)
3. Agree completely!
Sat Nov 7, 2020, 09:56 AM
Nov 2020

I considered replying, but thought better of it. There are some who will always find an excuse, even at 9am.

Mike 03

(16,995 posts)
5. I think it was the writer John Cheever, who himself was a serious
Sat Nov 7, 2020, 10:34 AM
Nov 2020

alcoholic (one of my writing teachers was a student of his, and had some mind-blowing stories about Cheever's drinking, including one where he left his home to teach wearing no clothes) used to say that he could "spot a glass of sherry in a paragraph", meaning he could tell by reading the writing of others whether they were writing under the influence of alcohol.

I bring this up because of some of the posts we've all seen this week.

JDC

(10,494 posts)
6. It doesn't bother me. Lots of people can drink responsibly
Sat Nov 7, 2020, 10:36 AM
Nov 2020

And without issue. Lots cannot. I happen to fall into the second category.

But more to your point, I do notice. But maybe I notice because I know I can't celebrate that way.

I have been sober a minute or two and one thing still remains the same since I got undrunk: I/we are surrounded by booze, ads for booze, the promotion of booze, events and "reasons" for people to drink booze, etc etc and that is not going to change.

And with the Holidays are coming up and it is not going to decrease either. If anything, increase.

I know what works for me to stay sober and I do those things.....mostly.

Appreciate your post.

bif

(24,065 posts)
8. Not really. A couple of years ago I'd use it as an excuse to drink even more than usual.
Mon Nov 9, 2020, 08:57 PM
Nov 2020

But I've been clean for a couple years. In a way I wish I could have a few beers to celebrate But with me, there never was a thing as a couple beers. So I just avoid it.

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