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Related: About this forumKanye West's Actions Are Stalking Behaviors
After a very public courtship and marriage, Kim Kardashian West filed for divorce from rapper Kanye West (legally known as Ye) in mid-February. In the wake of that filing, Westwho shares four children with Kardashianhas exhibited behavior that ranges from bizarre to downright scary, and the media arent taking them seriously enough.
Kardashian, for her part, has attempted to keep the dissolution of her and Wests relationship behind closed doors, in the hands of lawyers and mediators. Westwho openly pined for Kardashian for years before they got together and has since been seen out with Kim lookalikeshas other plans.
For the past six months, West has posted about the pairs custody fight (including an accusation that Kardashian withheld the location of their childs birthday party); made a song about how he wants to beat up Kardashians new boyfriend, Pete Davidson; publicly asked her to come back to him while performing at a benefit concert; sent a truck emblazoned with the phrase MY VISION IS KRYSTAL KLEAR with a bed full of flowers to Kardashians home for Valentines Day; posted and deleted paparazzi photos of Kardashian and Davidson, again threatening him; repeatedly shared screenshots of his private communication with Kardashian; and talked about the dissolving marriage publicly, while volunteering at a charity event benefiting the unhoused.
This is not normal, and it should not be passed off as romantic or okay or fodder for our entertainment. This situation is being treated as celebrity spectacle or like your typical Kardashian drama, but the behaviors are really familiar to us because of how much it mirrors real-life examples that we deal with in our law practice all of the time, Annie Seifullah, an associate attorney with C.A. Goldberg Law, told Jezebel by phone. Targets of this type of abuse know that once they physically separate themselves, theyre still going to be the subject and target of the ex partners obsession. And when the abusive ex partner no longer has like a physical or emotional control of the victim because they have left the situation, the ex partner often resorts to causing havoc around their target in order to maintain power and control even after theyve left their relationship.
https://jezebel.com/kanye-wests-actions-are-stalking-behaviors-1848543148
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If you have been stalked, you know this. If you haven't, recognize it NOW, before you are.
hlthe2b
(106,340 posts)unlikely anyone really tells him "No." Add to that his poorly controlled bipolar disorder (and possibly other issues) and Kim's got a lifetime of headaches with this one. Sharing kids makes for a nightmare for the indefinite future and makes it impossible for her to fully ignore him.
I'm not into celebrity culture but it is impossible to tune some of it out.
flying_wahini
(8,008 posts)Bernardo de La Paz
(50,899 posts)spicysista
(1,731 posts)His behavior isn't normal or healthy and he seems to be getting worse. I hope he gets the help he needs.
I have been targeted by someone who I wasn't in a relationship with. It was scary. He did not write songs or make public pronouncements but his behavior was still very threatening. Because I lived in a protected community, he would show up at my church, mother's home, dance studio, or any other place he thought I might be. He even found my grandmother at church and tried to contact me through her.
I can not imagine the stress behavior like this would cause coming from an estranged spouse. It must be really complicated and messy.
onecaliberal
(35,803 posts)Blue Owl
(54,734 posts)Jilly_in_VA
(10,886 posts)nor am I a fan of either of them, but I put this out here as a cautionary tale because your daughters or granddaughters will have seen these stories, and this makes a really good jumping-off point for a discussion with them about obsessive behavior and stalking. It doesn't have to be a celebrity. It can be anybody, of any age. It wasn't that long ago that a 16 year old girl in Knoxville was shot and killed as she slept by a boy she'd broken up with, a boy who just couldn't let go.
Bernardo de La Paz
(50,899 posts)Boxerfan
(2,533 posts)That is what I heard this AM on Stephanie Miller Show.
That is beyond F'd up & I hope judge can write a restraining order preventing him from living there.
niyad
(119,903 posts)SoCalDavidS
(10,599 posts)Yet, Kim still chose to marry him, and give birth to 4 kids with him.
I had seen enough Lifetime movies to know that this wasn't going to end well.
packman
(16,296 posts)They both thrive on the notoriety and press - attention hogs who both bathe in attention. It's their thing.
niyad
(119,903 posts)bringing this to us.