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[Warren DeMontague]

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[ZombieHorde]

1. If I am having sex everyday,

then I sometimes need to see/feel my partner have an O in order to "function," so I'll pretty much have to go down, which means she will have at least that one, and perhaps more, depending on what we actually do.

[ZombieHorde]

9. HAH may want to invest in a vibrator, and learn how to use it with HAW. nt

[Behind the Aegis]

2. Glad to be gay!

[Scuba]

3. Thread winner.

[Behind the Aegis]

7. So very true!!

I am very lucky to have someone who gets me and tolerates me.

[TreasonousBastard]

5. Alas, idjits come in all genders...

or is it cum? And too many write articles and blogs.

Now, assuming some hypothetical guy had sex primarily as hookups with the occasional longer term girlfriends, and much of this was with, ahem, slightly older women, said guy might note that there are some things that are obvious, but never spoken of.

Like certain anatomical conditions of young women that may encourage the guy to get off real soon until he learns better control. And when he learns that control, he may find himself with divorcees who have had a kid or two and also are far more confident in their sexuality than the younger ones. And find he doesn't need to consciously control himself so much, leading to a much longer experience giving the lady more than enough time to enjoy herself.

Do some women get off faster and more often than others? That's nothing new. Lesbian sex being more satisfying? Again, nothing new and there are several reasons for that having little to do with the evil patrimony but perhaps more to do with skill levels, lack of fear and loathing...

Never forget that a lot of people, male and female, just aren't very good lovers, and since it's tha male who does the heavy work, him not being very good at it will have greater consequences.

[opiate69]

11. Just fine, TYVM...

At least 2:1, if not higher typically.. but then, I`m more of an "appetizer" fan than a "main course" guy so...

[Bonobo]

12. To be perfectly honest...

My wife usually gets two to my every one.

Not bragging, just telling the truth.

I wish men could have multiple orgasms too...

[Bonobo]

14. I am quite sure

that there are some "over there" who will automatically think, based on their own experiences, that we are being "faked out".

I feel sad for them.

[Bonobo]

15. In my experience...

Some women who finish first are unable or unwilling to go on because they are all "spasmed out". But then, there are some who are the opposite.

Is that your experience as well?

[MrSlayer]

18. We're pretty even.

Over the span of time my wife and I are fairly even. She does better when we have all out sessions simply because women are able to get off repeatedly whereas men are one at a time. But there are plenty of times where she'll just take care of me (her choice) and that's where I catch up.

So, in full on sessions she "outscores" me by a lot but I don't mind, it's not a competition and no one loses.


But for all that, I think these radical extremists are just lunatics looking for something to bitch about. Why we give these idiots any credence at all is beyond me. It's like taking a teabagger or anarchist seriously. They are on the super fringe.

[RiffRandell]

19. Can a woman give her 2 cents?

Just asking. I think all of you are very respectful....just don't want to intrude.

[opiate69]

20. Of course! Everybody's welcome here, regardless of their plumbing

[UnrepentantLiberal]

22. I'm gonna go to a place that only an animal would go...

But everyone knows what a twisted, fucked up animal* I am so...

I had a girlfriend who (Oh God don't say it) occasionally would (Don't go there!) watch porn** to get off while I was watching television. Then right as she was cuming I'd jump in and the sex would continue from there. And it turned us both on and the sex was GREAT. ...There, I said it. She'd ask me, "is this OK with you?" "Hell yes", I says. "Both of us being satisfied, fed and happy is the important thing."

*No animals were harmed making this post.

**I'd say what kind of porn it was but that might cause a riot and nobody wants that.

[UnrepentantLiberal]

24. .

[Warren DeMontague]

25. I guess that's why God made ipads.

[RiffRandell]

26. Here goes.

Pretty even...I guess 1-2. I think one of the biggest turn-ons is satisfying your partner which leads to your satisfaction.

That's just my opinion; I'm sure my husband would agree.

Due to life/household/kids I think spontaneity and other things that some people may find offensive (use you imagination here) is a great thing.

I love this line from the movie "Outside Providence" by Alec Baldwin's character giving his son the sex talk:

"Making sex is like Chinese dinner. It ain't over till you both get your cookies...Remember that I said that."

Good coming of age movie written by the Farrelly brothers:

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0125971/

That's my 2 cents. Thanks for letting me share.

[RiffRandell]

28. Same here!

We are both so damn tired at night; we just want to watch tv and crash. The video game Minecraft helps us out immensely since they've outgrown SB, which is so disappointing as I haven't and probably never will. Chocolate with Nuts and The Bully are my favorite episodes.