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We called him "Mr. Shields" because no one dared use his first name. He'd step onto his porch at night in plaid shorts and black knit dress socks to watch the Baltimore Orioles play on his portable television set.
He was a steelworker, but he looked debonair: thin mustache always trimmed; wavy salt-and-pepper hair touched up with pomade; cocoa brown skin. He sat like a sentry, watching not just the games but the neighborhood as well.
I knew Mr. Shields' routine because I was his neighbor. I grew up in the West Baltimore community that was rocked this week by protests over the death of a young black man in police custody.
http://www.cnn.com/2015/05/02/us/lord-of-the-flies-baltimore/index.html
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)I heard Raspberry's voice again this week when I talked to a 27-year-old black man named Juan Grant. He knew Gray, whose death in police custody lit the fuse in Baltimore. Grant stood no more than a foot from me, but as he talked, he yelled at me in frustration, spittle coming from his mouth. He said Gray's death had convinced him and his friends to stop "ripping and running" the streets. They wanted boys to respect them as men.
But they didn't know how to get that respect because their fathers had never been around. He described their dilemma with a bitter laugh:
"It's men learning on the job trying to teach young men how to be men."
Raspberry wrote his column 28 years ago. Now there are even more castaways like Grant in West Baltimore. Yet here's the twist: They don't just feel abandoned by indifferent white people; many feel ignored by the city's black political leaders.
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)Also remind me of Laurence Fishburne's speech to his son and other people in Boyz in the Hood.
Slightly different from the article, but true and that movie came out in 1991.
Chisox08
(1,898 posts)What makes it worse is the fact nobody gives a shit until property gets burned, and even then they care more about the damaged property than the damaged boys and men.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)remarks to generalize the same applies to other peoples.
One disturbing problem I have observed with black leaders and political culture: Almost uniform support for the WOD, the mill house for "big numbers." I wonder (still do) why this entrenched pro-WOD stance was maintained in the face of the consequences. I just don't understand, except that such a position might shield against the Soft On Drugs® hammering a weakened Demo Party was taking by the GOPers.
Only now, have some people come around to see the utter, deep, long-term destruction the WOD has caused. And then, only some.
I also wonder how many black leaders still cling to WOD orthodoxy, even now.