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Fellow "assholes" check in here! (Original Post) Taverner Dec 2011 OP
I like to think I'm a sensitive asshole. racaulk Dec 2011 #1
Kind of scared to ask what this is about.... daleanime Dec 2011 #2
Not about anythying, really Taverner Dec 2011 #3
Well, I used to be one, and probably still am to some HuskiesHowls Dec 2011 #4
I'm not an asshole but I know what is best for me and consider that a starting point in negotiations lumberjack_jeff Dec 2011 #5
We even have a theme song. Warren DeMontague Dec 2011 #6
Broken hearts are for us. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2011 #7
I didn't think I was Gore1FL May 2012 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague May 2012 #9
It's not worth it. Gore1FL May 2012 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague May 2012 #11
The thread that started it all is worth a look/see now. n/t Gore1FL May 2012 #12
is this it? opiate69 May 2012 #13
I believe that might be the one. Gore1FL May 2012 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague May 2012 #15
Yeah, you made a big mistake buddy ProudToBeBlueInRhody May 2012 #16
It is with sadness that I must report Gore1FL May 2012 #17
THat thread was seriously toxic tech_smythe May 2012 #18
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague May 2012 #20
Post removed Post removed May 2012 #22
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague May 2012 #19
You're assuming they want a debate... they don't tech_smythe May 2012 #21
Merely by suscribing to this group Warren DeMontague Jun 2012 #23
 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
3. Not about anythying, really
Tue Dec 20, 2011, 08:55 PM
Dec 2011

Just that I take a certain amount of pride in being a boorish, angry, climb the walls asshole

HuskiesHowls

(711 posts)
4. Well, I used to be one, and probably still am to some
Tue Dec 20, 2011, 09:15 PM
Dec 2011

But, a buying my therapist a new car, AND a new boat kinda helped me deal with at least the anger part. Some people probably think I'm still boorish, and an asshole, though.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
5. I'm not an asshole but I know what is best for me and consider that a starting point in negotiations
Wed Dec 21, 2011, 06:53 PM
Dec 2011

No. I don't want to go to the opera.

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ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
16. Yeah, you made a big mistake buddy
Tue May 15, 2012, 08:21 AM
May 2012

Remember, "nice guys" who white knight like that are only looking to have sex. Dirty, icky sex. You filthy pig!

Gore1FL

(21,805 posts)
17. It is with sadness that I must report
Tue May 15, 2012, 11:02 PM
May 2012

most of the posts were self-deleted.

I wish I would have captured the thread for posterity.



 

tech_smythe

(190 posts)
18. THat thread was seriously toxic
Tue May 15, 2012, 11:36 PM
May 2012

and no, I don't think you contributed - well maybe you taunted a little...
but im just an eeeeevil man, so what do I know?

it's what I found out, you can't speak truth to feminists.
punt uit
it simply can't be done.
There are those rare individuals like SeaBeyond, but she's a rare one. She is actually capable of seeing both sides, and understand how both sides can see or be hurt by X.

If we're to have a healthy equality between the sexes, as we men give up our "natural power" they have to also give up their natural power, which I don't think they're willing to do... ever.

what power?
the short list:
women run:
The house hold
the direction of the relationship
ANY, and the level of intimacy
potentially how you see yourself (my ex, in the end, nearly destroyed me)
the conversation - there is no way a man can bring up a contrary idea in this discussion w/o being flamed into non-existence.

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