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http://www.takepart.com/article/2015/02/26/women-want-facebook-stop-asking-if-theyre-feeling-fat?cmpid=tpdaily-eml-2015-02-26Women Want Facebook to Stop Asking If Theyre Feeling Fat
A Change.org petition hopes to get the social media platform to remove several body-shaming status update options.
Having feeling fat and feeling ugly as status update choices promotes and supports the endless torrent of judgment and pressure to be perfect felt by young people across the world, wrote Charlotte and Vicky on the petition. We do enough comparing as it is, we dont need a status update to make it even easier to feel bad about ourselves.
Many users of Facebook simply type in a status update without taking advantage of all the buttons at the bottom of the input box. However, if you click on the smiling emoticon icon, the platform gives you the option to add what youre doing or feeling. Most of the choices seem harmlessyou can say youre excited, sad, annoyed, even hungover. The emoticons face changes to reflect the emotion you choose.
The emoticon for feeling fat doesnt look too happy, and it has a double chin. Meanwhile, the emoticon for feeling ugly seems to indicate that having a big nose, thick eyebrows, a mustache, and wearing glasses is unattractive.
The two activists note that the terms fat and ugly are ones that many teenagers use to describe themselves. Nowadays far too many teen girls spend their time obsessing over their waist size. According to the National Association of Anorexia and Associated Disorders, an astounding 47 percent of middle and high schoolage girls have said that looking at images of models in magazines makes them want to be a smaller size. It took years to stop attacking ourselves verbally, and once we finally thought things might be looking up, Facebook decided to push us right back down, wrote Vicky and Charlotte on the petition.
So far nearly 7,000 people have signed the petition. Facebook has yet to respond.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Also DU's drunk and dunce smileys need to go. Stupidty and Alcoholism are NOT FUNNY
opiate69
(10,129 posts)ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)So, apparently men aren't given this option of "fat" and "ugly" because only women are objecting.
Also, the ugly smilie has a mustache.
Bonobo
(29,257 posts)I guess for some reason having to do with genitalia, it doesn't plague the minds of men to have the option of among about 50 or more "feelings" to choose "I feel fat".
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)In that vein wouldn't "I feel fat" be a statement of pride? The fat smiley is, after all, smiling.
Hmmm. One might think some people aren't really as thrilled with themselves, as they like to pretend online.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)immediateleh!!!!
until facebook removes the offending fat smiley face as an option because you know options starts with "O" just like oppression amirite!?
Oh, yeah, except... facebook is free, which is even WORSE and more OPPRESSIN' FREEEEDUMB ARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGgggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh