sex,would you pay for it, or even if possible get paid for doing it

[loli phabay]

By pay i mean cold hard cash, i personally think what two or three people do isntheir own business as long as its consenting adults. What say you.

[ZombieHorde]

1. I prostituted myself for coke once.

I didn't have much interest in the coke, I mostly just wanted to do something inappropriate, according to "society." I did enjoy the coke though.

[loli phabay]

13. lol, are you saying no one forced you into it

People seem to not realise that there are people who enjoy sex and want to get paid for it. If your vocation is your vacation then you got it made as they say.

[ZombieHorde]

15. I'm kind of a weirdo,

so my experience is probably very rare.

[loli phabay]

16. we are all wierd in some way, i prefer weird to normal anyday and who is to say whats normal.

[Behind the Aegis]

2. I guess it would depend on a few things.

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If it were really someone I wanted to have sex with, or possibly a bet. Though, I must say, I usually can get it when needed, if not, my hand ain't broke! Of course, I have a partner now, so it is usually based on mutual desire/need. When I was younger, I was offered cash multiple times, only accepted once.

ETA: Personally, I think new apps ("Grindr" for gays) and sites (and boy howdy are there a shitload) make sexual encounters much easier and more of a sure thing, then hanging out in a bar, cruising a park, or what have you.

[loli phabay]

9. yup, the internet makes it as easy as signing up, posting profile and pics then hooking up

Getting good feedback and voila your getting laid whenever you want.

[PeteSelman]

3. No. I have weird performance issues.

Like, I can't physically perform unless the other person is sincerely into me. I suppose I could take a BJ from anyone and it would eventually work but I'd feel weird to pay for it. What turns me on is the other person wanting to do it. For that reason I couldn't be a gigalo either, at least not a good one. I have to be attracted to the person that's paying me and I doubt I would be.

So, no.

[Katashi_itto]

18. I agree. I am incredibly picky, I have to be in a relationship where there is emotional content

Otherwise it's just doesnt do anything

Plus the girl needs to have a brain.

[loli phabay]

19. remember its just about sex, its interesting though the need to have the closeness and intimacy

It is amazing just how different we all are as a species.

[Katashi_itto]

20. Oh I agree! Amazing how a good portion of people

cant accept the fact we all have variances to our sexual wiring.

[loli phabay]

21. most important thing should be live and let live and consent

[Katashi_itto]

22. Yep, though I think it's show less and less on DU

[TreasonousBastard]

4. These days I damn near have to pay for it...

thanks to the effects of aging.

Anyway, I see nothing wrong with consensual sex, even if money changes hands. Every other function or activity of life we pay for-- why not sex?

In many cases, we'd all probably be better off paying a pro, male or female, to avoid the emotional, and possibly legal, hassles and have it done right.

In fact, I wouldn't mind seeing a class of adults whose job it is to introduce kids reaching a certain age to the joy of sex without the pain or the hassle. The thought would undoubtedly blow a few minds, but having high school sex ed being really sex ed would likely reduce rape, unintended pregnancy, and vast amounts of teen angst and drama.

[loli phabay]

14. kind of like a coming of age thing,

[Eleanors38]

5. No. Never had the desire to pay, nor found it necessary.

I don't fundamentally understand the payment aspect, but that is me. At my age, I still miss the active sex life, but not that much, and I think that is on balance a good thing. Lately, the only "offers" have come from married women, or women much, much younger who had some thousand yard stare issues going on. Would still like an occasional mutual release of endorphins.

[loli phabay]

10. the payment aspect comes if you have something people want, up till now it was just sex

Nowadays getting hooked up is easy so now you need a niche to make money or be very good at what you do.

[Warren DeMontague]

6. No one can afford me.

But trust me, I'm worth it.


Serious answer? No. And no. I'm not going to judge other peoples' choices if they're consenting adults, though.

[Major Nikon]

7. I've never been asked for a refund

[loli phabay]

8. thats because of your loyalty card program and buy one get one free. lol

[Major Nikon]

11. I'm all about repeat customers

[loli phabay]

12. someone has to be amazing to be a repeat customer to me

[Inkfreak]

17. No, never have paid.

I'll be honest, I feel like my younger self of 15-20 or so years ago would have paid and loved to be paid. I was a kid with raging hormones and I was lonely. Took me awhile to get a "rap" with women. But I got better at approaching and talking to them. And a few dates in, I was confident enough in myself to enjoy being single. And now I enjoy being married.