Great New Yorker article from 1996 by Henry Louis Gates
http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/1996/02/26/hating-hillary
Hllary Clintons supporters have their own theories about the slings and arrows, many of which have to do with her role as a prominent working woman, and hence a symbol of feminism at a time when feminism is under siege. Gloria Steinem offers the canonical feminist explanation: She and the President are presenting, at a very high, visible level, a new paradigm of a male-female relationship. And that is very much resented. Mandy Grunwalda consultant who worked closely with the Clintons in 1992, as media director of the campaignnotes that women in politics often make other women uncomfortable: They feel threatenedtheyre looking at a woman who is close to their age and has made totally different choices. Hillary, she says, forces them to ask questions about themselves and the choices theyve made that they dont necessarily want to ask.
Hillary herself identifies a cultural component of her difficulties. I dont want to get grandiose, she says, but I believe that were going through a significant transitioneconomically, politically, culturally, socially, in gender relations, all kinds of waysand so someone as visible as I am is going to get a lot of attention. I think if the spotlight were turned on many of my friends in their own private lives somebody could make out of it what they would: My goodness, she didnt take her husbands name, or Shes the one who travels while her husband stays home and takes care of the children, or She has a very traditional roledoes that mean that shes sold out her education? There could be questions like that raised about nearly every American woman I know. Its just that Im the one in the public eye right now, and so a lot of the issues that are being talked about around kitchen tables or office water coolers or in college classrooms get focussed on me.