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great white snark

(2,646 posts)
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 03:30 PM Mar 2016

Carry on my DU friends.

This discussion thread is pinned.

Well it's become abundantly clear that it's time for me to pay the piper. Been fighting cancer but now there is no fight left-my fate is irreversible. I'm at a loss because being a dumb Marine all I know how to do is fight.

I know I'm nothing special to DU, my contributions were piss poor and I just had to apologize to my AA, LGBT and everyone else I should have stood up for. Not an excuse but you should know that having done the unspeakable during the war has left me with many issues including communicating properly. For every post I manage to make at least 20 have been scrapped due to uncertainty.

You should also know my name is Paul, Chicago born and have had many family members waving the union flag for the United Steel Workers. And of course I'm a lifelong non-apologetic Democrat.

I don't know what to say to Cha and sheshe2...you always spoke for me and showed my a kindness seldom seen anywhere. I cherish knowing you. To Tarheel Dem, my first DU friend, I respect you so much and any cause thought important to you would have been just as important to me. Thank you. Thank you to all to long to list, still, know you all affected a life positively.

Please get Hillary elected. Please don't forget the important state/local elections where many good Democrats are poised to change the world. Please Skinner fix this or I will haunt your ass.

Please take care of each other.

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Carry on my DU friends. (Original Post) great white snark Mar 2016 OP
So, so sorry. charlyvi Mar 2016 #1
You don't know me or I you UtahLib Mar 2016 #2
+100 narnian60 Mar 2016 #41
I wish you peace. SunSeeker Mar 2016 #3
Hey Paul! Uben Mar 2016 #4
I have no words. Evergreen Emerald Mar 2016 #5
Go well. Go easily. murielm99 Mar 2016 #6
Thank you for being here. KitSileya Mar 2016 #7
Peace Paul The Polack MSgt Mar 2016 #8
Comfort and strength, Marine. Sempre Fi. sarge43 Mar 2016 #9
Hope u r Blessed and find Comfort ,,,, Cryptoad Mar 2016 #10
For Chicago-born Paul.... democrank Mar 2016 #11
Sempre Fi Paul. Here's hoping that you meet no resistance on this last recon FailureToCommunicate Mar 2016 #12
Wishing you peace and comfort Paul! denvine Mar 2016 #13
Paul, I hope you have the support of good friends IRL. pnwmom Mar 2016 #14
Bless you, Paul. May your life be joyous and filled with love, peace and friendship. Dont call me Shirley Mar 2016 #15
Peace and love brother SCantiGOP Mar 2016 #16
Peace be with you brer cat Mar 2016 #17
..... Spazito Mar 2016 #18
Much love at this difficult time wryter2000 Mar 2016 #19
Semper Fi (if it's proper for an ex-Army sergeant to say it) Jack Rabbit Mar 2016 #20
Never doubt that you made a contribution to DU--you did. Even though japple Mar 2016 #21
I'll see you in the next world... world wide wally Mar 2016 #22
Keep on fighting Paul. davidthegnome Mar 2016 #23
Ooh-Rah! and Semper Fi! Paul SnowCritter Mar 2016 #24
Keep fighting Marine Lazy Daisy Mar 2016 #25
... shenmue Mar 2016 #26
OMG Paul, Loki Mar 2016 #27
Go gentle. You are loved and will be missed. leftofcool Mar 2016 #28
Thank you for these beautiful and truthful words. Go bravely and with love in your heart. JackRiddler Mar 2016 #29
It was a privilege to have been in your sphere, Paul... SidDithers Mar 2016 #30
Bless your heart Rose Siding Mar 2016 #31
So much love to you Paul. ronnykmarshall Mar 2016 #32
Peace and comfort to you ... NurseJackie Mar 2016 #33
Peace brother. flying rabbit Mar 2016 #34
Wishing you peace and comfort.. one_voice Mar 2016 #35
A peaceful journey, Paul mcar Mar 2016 #36
God be with you. Love your second to last sentence, great spirit at this time. Peace. George II Mar 2016 #37
Peace and love to you, Paul NastyRiffraff Mar 2016 #38
Thank you for fighting the good fight. Your words make me cry for many reasons. SleeplessinSoCal Mar 2016 #39
((great white snark)) Peace to you and to all who love you. blm Mar 2016 #40
I am a cancer survivor... gregcrawford Mar 2016 #42
We are rooting for you. Mary Mac Mar 2016 #43
Everybody is special on the DU Omaha Steve Mar 2016 #44
Peace be with you. May The Universe welcome you with open arms. Keep LoisB Mar 2016 #45
Thank you so much. stonecutter357 Mar 2016 #46
I wish you peace. I am so sorry. synergie Mar 2016 #47
Semper Fi, Paul........ mrmpa Mar 2016 #48
peace be with you... thanks for the post Fast Walker 52 Mar 2016 #49
I'm at a loss for words Kaleva Mar 2016 #50
Carry the torch of toughness... RepubliCON-Watch Mar 2016 #51
Carry On!! shadowmayor Mar 2016 #52
I'm so sorry Snark sharp_stick Mar 2016 #53
Thank you for being here Paul treestar Mar 2016 #54
You sound like a great person. DCBob Mar 2016 #55
God bless you Paul during the time you have left steve2470 Mar 2016 #56
Thank you for your contributions to DU Cali_Democrat Mar 2016 #57
Bidding you a comfortable journey, and thanking you for Rhythm Mar 2016 #58
for you... handmade34 Mar 2016 #59
Peaceful journey beyond the rim... Johnny Noshoes Mar 2016 #60
I've always looked forward to your posts because I knew they'd be good. greatauntoftriplets Mar 2016 #61
God speed, Paul. When I volunteer for Hillary it will be in your name. yardwork Mar 2016 #62
To you... babylonsister Mar 2016 #63
what you said. MBS Mar 2016 #114
You were always special to me Paul. sheshe2 Mar 2016 #64
.. Cha Mar 2016 #95
Yes........ sheshe2 Mar 2016 #96
You are special Paul. Thanks for being here still_one Mar 2016 #65
I'm so sorry BainsBane Mar 2016 #66
Paul, BooScout Mar 2016 #67
Caring thoughts for you and yours, GWS. JohnnyLib2 Mar 2016 #68
Paul, I'm so sorry this is your fate. Thank you for all you brought to DU, more than you know. Hekate Mar 2016 #69
Paul, while we never connected your words touched my heart. Fla Dem Mar 2016 #70
That sucks man. blackspade Mar 2016 #71
I'm sure we'll all be with you soon enough, Paul. Semper fidelis!! Elmer S. E. Dump Mar 2016 #72
Very sorry to hear this floriduck Mar 2016 #73
dude, i dont know you from a can of paint 8 track mind Mar 2016 #74
Peace and love to you, Paul. mia Mar 2016 #75
Hey Paul. It was great spending time with you on DU. Renew Deal Mar 2016 #76
Thanks for being on our side BeyondGeography Mar 2016 #77
Love to you from another Chicago born Person 2713 Mar 2016 #78
I'm so very sorry to hear this. I wish you peace and comfort. Thank you for your service and PeaceNikki Mar 2016 #79
Semper Fi from a fellow jarhead, donco Mar 2016 #80
I've always enjoyed your posts Bobbie Jo Mar 2016 #81
We don't know each other DemonGoddess Mar 2016 #82
Wishing you a peaceful journey, Marine. beveeheart Mar 2016 #83
If your name is any indication KT2000 Mar 2016 #84
I'll say a prayer for you Algernon Moncrieff Mar 2016 #85
Paul Thespian2 Mar 2016 #86
I have heard nothing less than your kindness, gentleness. you have touched people, Paul. seabeyond Mar 2016 #87
Peace be with you my friend. William769 Mar 2016 #88
My thoughts go out to you and to your family Sheepshank Mar 2016 #89
Breaking my hiatus briefly for you, eyes welling with tears. freshwest Mar 2016 #90
A brave post... New Orleans Strong Mar 2016 #91
Peace to you, Paul. Many thanks for serving our country and your contributons to DU. sueh Mar 2016 #92
Damn, great white snark.. Cha Mar 2016 #93
Know this, Paul: You are special to DU. TygrBright Mar 2016 #94
At 60 years of age, I am thinking a lot about my mortality, these days... Ferretherder Mar 2016 #97
Thinking of you, Paul DesertRat Mar 2016 #98
There'll be peace when we are done... but SaveAmerica Mar 2016 #99
Thinking of you. QC Mar 2016 #100
peace be upon you MFM008 Mar 2016 #101
I am so sorry to hear about this. I wish this were not happening to you. nt tblue37 Mar 2016 #102
Semper Fi, Paul. Nickel79 Mar 2016 #103
Paul, I am at a complete loss for words. This is a gut punch that I did not expect, and certainly.. Tarheel_Dem Mar 2016 #104
sending you love and stregth proud patriot Mar 2016 #105
Cross easy, Paul. Thank you for being here. nolabear Mar 2016 #106
God bless you and keep you. BigBearJohn Mar 2016 #107
Always loved your posts Paul. joshcryer Mar 2016 #108
You are loved. lovemydog Mar 2016 #109
Thank you for your words Samantha Mar 2016 #110
Hoping for a miracle cure for you ... brett_jv Mar 2016 #111
It's hard to find the words OKNancy Mar 2016 #112
Godspeed, Paul 72DejaVu Mar 2016 #113
May the Cosmos enfold you in universal, unconditional and infinite love. Surya Gayatri Mar 2016 #115
. NCTraveler Mar 2016 #116
You are a blessing to us too Coolest Ranger Mar 2016 #117
Apology accepted. Betty Karlson Mar 2016 #118
huh ? what ? steve2470 Mar 2016 #119
No. Quote: Betty Karlson Mar 2016 #123
ah ok, my bad! nt steve2470 Mar 2016 #124
While we may disagree on our choice for POTUS, we proud,y represent the USW! Dustlawyer Mar 2016 #120
Take it easy, Paul. Iggo Mar 2016 #121
I hope you and your family find peace and release from pain. sinkingfeeling Mar 2016 #122
Peace to you, and your family.. disillusioned73 Mar 2016 #125
Blessings Paul colorado_ufo Mar 2016 #126
Bless you Highway61 Mar 2016 #127
Wishing you comfort on this journey TNNurse Mar 2016 #128
Semper Fi, brother. Fair winds and following seas. Recursion Mar 2016 #129
Peace to you Paul panader0 Mar 2016 #130
Godspeed, Paul. nt Dr Hobbitstein Mar 2016 #131
Keep fighting the good fight! Initech Mar 2016 #132
Peace be with you, and let love call you home. DinahMoeHum Mar 2016 #133
Thinking of you Paul! hrmjustin Mar 2016 #134
This community is better for having you in it. Skinner Mar 2016 #135
Til we meet again... riderinthestorm Mar 2016 #136
travel well, Paul, nt geek tragedy Mar 2016 #137
Rest easy, brother. NuclearDem Mar 2016 #138
Semper Fi, brother cactusfractal Mar 2016 #139
my heart goes out to you, Paul noiretextatique Mar 2016 #140
Love you, great white snark. calimary Mar 2016 #141
Peace and love,Paul Third Doctor Mar 2016 #142
Peace to you, Paul. Punkingal Mar 2016 #143
You're not a dumb Marine DissidentVoice Mar 2016 #144
Peace be with you. herding cats Mar 2016 #145
Please pass in peace and without pain Gothmog Mar 2016 #146
i have learned that one of the kindest things to say to someone who is departing this world is this: orleans Mar 2016 #147
May peace be with you. MariaThinks Mar 2016 #148
Very sorry to hear this Paul. Pass gently and see you on the other side. stevenleser Mar 2016 #149
Alles gute from across the pond, Paul lebkuchen Mar 2016 #150
I hope there's someone close by to take care of you. MADem Mar 2016 #151
Peace to you cosmicone Mar 2016 #152
God bless you workinclasszero Mar 2016 #153
You are an inspiration to me. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with your DU family. Godspeed greatlaurel Mar 2016 #154
Forgive this but have you tried sending your records to other cancer centers asking stevenleser Mar 2016 #155
Bless you politicasista Jun 2016 #156
Well said, politcasista. MBS Jun 2016 #157
I'll hope for a miracle for you; you deserve one. nt MADem Jul 2016 #158
we tried... samnsara Feb 2017 #159
we tried to get Hillary elected... samnsara Mar 2017 #160
So sorry...I wish you peace. Demsrule86 Oct 2018 #161
Just saw this and it broke my heart ... ificandream Jan 2022 #162

UtahLib

(3,180 posts)
2. You don't know me or I you
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 03:43 PM
Mar 2016

but your post brought tears to my eyes. I wish you a smooth journey surrounded by the ones you love.


I have no doubt that your voice is every bit as important as anyone else's on DU.

Uben

(7,719 posts)
4. Hey Paul!
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 04:10 PM
Mar 2016

Sorry to hear of your health problems. It sucks, but what ya gonna do? When that time comes, know that there are a lot of us here to carry on the good fight. Being a marine, you have my utmost respect and thanks for volunteering to defend this country we all love so much. Without people like yourself, we are nothing.

After losing my wife to cancer, I am at peace with my mortality. We all gotta go sometime, but living truly is the hard part. The way I see it, we all get a turn at life. Some are fortunate enough to live a long life, others are not. When your turn is up, it's someone else's turn. I've narrowed it down to that.

Peace on ya brother!

murielm99

(31,412 posts)
6. Go well. Go easily.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 04:23 PM
Mar 2016

We will get Hillary elected, and some down ticket people, too.

We will remember you.

All DU members are valuable, whether they post often or not.

Maybe I will see you on the other side. They must have a place for good Democrats there.

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
7. Thank you for being here.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 04:27 PM
Mar 2016

We've never "spoken" on DU, but people like you are why DU is so important. Thank you for the time you've spent here, and good luck on your next big adventure.

democrank

(11,250 posts)
11. For Chicago-born Paul....
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 04:34 PM
Mar 2016

Emerson.....

But in the mud and scum of things
there always, always something sings.


~PEACE~

FailureToCommunicate

(14,313 posts)
12. Sempre Fi Paul. Here's hoping that you meet no resistance on this last recon
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 04:37 PM
Mar 2016

Thanks for sticking with DU, when so many others have bailed.

pnwmom

(109,511 posts)
14. Paul, I hope you have the support of good friends IRL.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 04:45 PM
Mar 2016

And good medical care. Peace to you on this journey.

We care. Come back here anytime.

Dont call me Shirley

(10,998 posts)
15. Bless you, Paul. May your life be joyous and filled with love, peace and friendship.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 04:45 PM
Mar 2016

There have been too many of us stricken with cancer, it is a global epidemic. May your suffering and pain be minimal.

japple

(10,303 posts)
21. Never doubt that you made a contribution to DU--you did. Even though
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 04:58 PM
Mar 2016

it might not have been YYYYUUUUGGGEEE, it mattered. We all matter. Bless you for the life you've led, the kindness you've shown, the love you gave, the part you played. Peace and love to you and yours.

davidthegnome

(2,983 posts)
23. Keep on fighting Paul.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 05:00 PM
Mar 2016

Death will come for us all, sooner or later... what is important is not how or even whether we die, but how we live in what time we have.

"I know I'm nothing special to DU, my contributions were piss poor and I just had to apologize to my AA, LGBT and everyone else I should have stood up for. Not an excuse but you should know that having done the unspeakable during the war has left me with many issues including communicating properly. For every post I manage to make at least 20 have been scrapped due to uncertainty. "

My Grandfather was a Marine who fought overseas - and he also did unspeakable things that left him deeply scarred for life. For all of that though, he was one of the greatest men I have ever had the honor of knowing. A world war II vet who used to tell me he felt worth his weight in wildcats. Even on his deathbed, he was not disheartened, not depressed, but full of the same humor and energy I had always known from him... jumping up and down on his hospital bed days before he passed, asking his seven year old grandson if he was still wearing diapers. Ah, I miss that man.

Everyone of us fighting the good fight here is special. I wish I could thank you for your service in the armed forces and as a democrat... in a way that didn't seem underwhelming. Some times there just aren't words for expressing gratitude and compassion.

I don't know what you believe in, some times I'm not even sure what I believe in... but if I have faith in anything, it's that the quest for knowledge, for wisdom, for enlightenment, for greater love... never ends. That comforts me when I think about my own death, that I believe there is something beyond this life, something grand and wonderful and peaceful.

Just remember that miracles happen every day - every time a child is born, every time someone makes a decision for peace instead of violence, every time someone saves a life or stands up for the oppressed. You are very much a part of this fight for progress, for democracy, for the fate and the future of the human race - and I am proud to have you with us.

I hope you find peace. I know that sounds inadequate... I hope you find everything you ever wanted or wished for. I hope you are deeply blessed and filled with love and compassion. Wherever you go from here, you made a positive difference, don't ever think otherwise.

It takes a lot of courage to stare into the face of death - you have my admiration and my respect.

SnowCritter

(843 posts)
24. Ooh-Rah! and Semper Fi! Paul
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 05:04 PM
Mar 2016

Cancer sucks! I was lucky and beat it - but, as I said, I was lucky.

If the Army and the Navy
Ever look on heaven's scenes,
They'll find the streets are guarded
By United States Marines.

God Bless!

 

Lazy Daisy

(928 posts)
25. Keep fighting Marine
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 05:05 PM
Mar 2016

Keep fighting for every precious moment. Find peace and joy with the time you have. Enjoy spring as the weather warms and the world around us explodes with beautiful color. Enjoy the company of old and new friends. Have those conversations, those moments of laughter. Fight for every damn moment, they belong to you.

Loki

(3,826 posts)
27. OMG Paul,
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 05:12 PM
Mar 2016

we will work hard, harder than you know. Keep an eye out for us, we will all be showing up one day. Peace be with you.

SidDithers

(44,245 posts)
30. It was a privilege to have been in your sphere, Paul...
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 05:17 PM
Mar 2016

You made an impact that can't be expressed with mere words.



Sid

NastyRiffraff

(12,448 posts)
38. Peace and love to you, Paul
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 05:41 PM
Mar 2016

We don't know each other but your beautiful post touched me. I wish you a peaceful leaving with loved ones around you. Thank you for being here, and you'd better believe we'll get Hillary elected.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,652 posts)
39. Thank you for fighting the good fight. Your words make me cry for many reasons.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 05:41 PM
Mar 2016

Please be at peace. We are a nation of Looney Tunes, but the main feature really needs to be seen. I hope Hillary will help get us there. I have so much hope the turnout will be huge and a mandate undeniable.

Peace out....

gregcrawford

(2,382 posts)
42. I am a cancer survivor...
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 05:49 PM
Mar 2016

... for now, at least, and I have lost too many friends to the Big C. I am inexpressibly sorry for what you must be going through, but mere words cannot provide solace. Go in peace and know that you will live on in the memories of all DUers, regardless of who they supported in the primaries.

stonecutter357

(12,767 posts)
46. Thank you so much.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 06:00 PM
Mar 2016

Remember your Creator
in the days of your youth,
before the days of trouble come
and the years approach when you will say,
“I find no pleasure in them”—

before the sun and the light
and the moon and the stars grow dark,
and the clouds return after the rain;

when the keepers of the house tremble,
and the strong men stoop,
when the grinders cease because they are few,
and those looking through the windows grow dim;

when the doors to the street are closed
and the sound of grinding fades;
when people rise up at the sound of birds,
but all their songs grow faint;

when people are afraid of heights
and of dangers in the streets;
when the almond tree blossoms
and the grasshopper drags itself along
and desire no longer is stirred.
Then people go to their eternal home
and mourners go about the streets.

Remember him—before the silver cord is severed,
and the golden bowl is broken;
before the pitcher is shattered at the spring,
and the wheel broken at the well,

and the dust returns to the ground it came from,
and the spirit returns to God who gave it.

mrmpa

(4,033 posts)
48. Semper Fi, Paul........
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 06:07 PM
Mar 2016

& when you get to the other side I hope you meet my Dad a former Marine and unapologetic Democrat. Again, Semper Fi.

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
53. I'm so sorry Snark
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 06:22 PM
Mar 2016

I hope you have friends and or relatives to help you through this. You are not alone now or ever.

DCBob

(24,689 posts)
55. You sound like a great person.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 06:27 PM
Mar 2016

Sorry to hear this but hang in there and keep contributing. Lets get Hillary elected!

steve2470

(37,463 posts)
56. God bless you Paul during the time you have left
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 06:27 PM
Mar 2016

I wish you and your family all the best, and I hope you see them in heaven/the afterlife one day. If you're not religious, Paul, then just take my words with the maximum kindness intended.

 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
57. Thank you for your contributions to DU
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 06:27 PM
Mar 2016

You have been a blessing to DU and it has been a pleasure to know you.

Rhythm

(5,435 posts)
58. Bidding you a comfortable journey, and thanking you for
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 06:34 PM
Mar 2016

both your service to our nation, and for your contributions to the conversation here as well.


Johnny Noshoes

(1,989 posts)
60. Peaceful journey beyond the rim...
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 06:38 PM
Mar 2016

The petty stuff doesn't matter in the end. Remember to "leave the campsite better
than you found it". If you leave it just a little better than when you first arrived people will say you done good.

You done good Marine!

sheshe2

(87,208 posts)
64. You were always special to me Paul.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 06:53 PM
Mar 2016

There is a place in my heart for you. I am pleased you posted this in the BOG, it was where I got to know you, my friend.

May you pass gently into the night knowing you are loved and will be missed.

I am in tears.

Much love

sheshe~

Hekate

(94,441 posts)
69. Paul, I'm so sorry this is your fate. Thank you for all you brought to DU, more than you know.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 07:46 PM
Mar 2016

Your loss will be felt.

Go with peace in your heart.

Fla Dem

(25,632 posts)
70. Paul, while we never connected your words touched my heart.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 08:12 PM
Mar 2016

Last edited Mon Mar 21, 2016, 11:38 AM - Edit history (1)

I hope what time you have left will be filled with love and peace. I can see by the many responses and love expressed here you are a special person who will be greatly missed.

 

Elmer S. E. Dump

(5,751 posts)
72. I'm sure we'll all be with you soon enough, Paul. Semper fidelis!!
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 08:16 PM
Mar 2016

I hope you have a pain free and peaceful shuffle off this mortal coil.

8 track mind

(1,638 posts)
74. dude, i dont know you from a can of paint
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 08:57 PM
Mar 2016

The only thing we have in common is our first names. I am a Bernie supporter. Your message moved me. Why don't we just give them absolute hell, well, just for the hell of it. Safe transition for you and Semper Fi.......

mia

(8,420 posts)
75. Peace and love to you, Paul.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 09:09 PM
Mar 2016
May joy and peace surround you,
Contentment latch your door,
And happiness be with you now,
And bless you evermore.

Renew Deal

(82,898 posts)
76. Hey Paul. It was great spending time with you on DU.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 09:17 PM
Mar 2016

And there is nothing wrong with your posts. Your perspective is as unique and interesting as anyone's on DU. I wish you the best.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
79. I'm so very sorry to hear this. I wish you peace and comfort. Thank you for your service and
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 09:23 PM
Mar 2016

contributions to this site. You will be missed and remembered fondly.

Bobbie Jo

(14,341 posts)
81. I've always enjoyed your posts
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 09:35 PM
Mar 2016

You are one of those posters that I would ALWAYS stop to read.

Please take care...

KT2000

(20,810 posts)
84. If your name is any indication
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 09:46 PM
Mar 2016

you have more than just fight - you have humor and kindness too. Thank you for that. I wish you peace great white snark.

Thespian2

(2,741 posts)
86. Paul
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 09:55 PM
Mar 2016

every life is special...we come into this world as a book with blank pages, and what we write through our actions makes all the difference...Think of how truly unique you are...there is no other like you...PEACE...



 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
87. I have heard nothing less than your kindness, gentleness. you have touched people, Paul.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 10:04 PM
Mar 2016

Been a part of our every day lives. I remember a conversation and even giggle about... what snark. Goodness is what I experienced.

You have touched many peoples lives .

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
89. My thoughts go out to you and to your family
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 10:14 PM
Mar 2016

I wish my farewell to you could be half as eloquent and touching as your farewell was to me, to us.

In the spirit of this political board, I can tell you that we will fight the good fight for Hillary and she will be the next President of the United States, and you can smile that it will come to be.

May this latest journey be calm and peaceful.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
90. Breaking my hiatus briefly for you, eyes welling with tears.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 10:15 PM
Mar 2016

Because I loved what you did post, and felt good about what you posted on especially here in our home in the BOG. This comes as a shock to me as I didn't know why your posts were so infrequent.

But I enjoyed them for years. With love, I send you my very best, and know you will be missed by those of us who read your words here. I hope you are surrounded by your friends and or family at this time, and focus on the love and respect you deserved.

Good bye, dear friend, I always was fond of you and asked if anyone had heard from you. Post if you can in the coming days or not, know that you have nothing to apologize for a well-lived life. That's all we will get for our days on Earth.

And I'll be voting Democrat for you if you can't in November. Godspeed to the next realm, whatever it is.



Now, I'm gone again.

New Orleans Strong

(212 posts)
91. A brave post...
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 10:19 PM
Mar 2016

...From a brave man. Fulfill what you still need to do and can do. And may it be a time for you to be with your favorite people, and for them to be lucky enough to be with your you.

- T.

sueh

(1,865 posts)
92. Peace to you, Paul. Many thanks for serving our country and your contributons to DU.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 10:24 PM
Mar 2016

May you cross gently. I hope to see you there.

Cha

(305,005 posts)
93. Damn, great white snark..
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 10:28 PM
Mar 2016


I remember when you wrote you wouldn't be around as much because you weren't feeling that well.. I thought of that every time I'd see you post or Rec one of our threads. Thinking maybe you were better.. I wish I would have written you and asked how you were. I'm so sad right now.. tears are just flowing.. it's such a beautiful farewell note you've written to all of us.

We're all special around here.. I would light up every time I saw your name and when you posted I would look forward to what you had to say.. what pearl and/or snark would be there. You're an excellent writer.

Thank you so much for being our DU friend and fellow President Obama and Hillary Supporter... I think we all treasure each other for the kindred spirit we feel, supporting such amazing leaders on a Democratic board, when we're in the minority.

Paul, I love your spirit and wish you and your loved ones Peace, Love, and Aloha~





for your service to our country and to your family members who waved the flag for the United Steel Workers!

Working our best to get Hillary elected now and she's doing her best to help with those important state/local elections you talked about..



http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1107&pid=78361

Thank you so much for your sweet message of "Please take care of each other".

Aloha, Paul~


TygrBright

(20,987 posts)
94. Know this, Paul: You are special to DU.
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 10:31 PM
Mar 2016

And to me.

Every member of this community makes DU what it is.

Beyond that, thank you for living the life you've lived, mistakes and all.

It matters.

You make a difference.

Your loss will be felt.

Memories of you will be cherished.

Don't stop fighting, though. To live every moment you have left with grace and kindness, if nothing else. They're all precious and worth that.

Besides, you're a Marine. The fight IS the victory.

Thank you for being part of DU, now and forever.

respectfully,
Bright

Ferretherder

(1,447 posts)
97. At 60 years of age, I am thinking a lot about my mortality, these days...
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 10:51 PM
Mar 2016

...and am grateful for the time I've had.

I may have quite a few years left.

I may have a few months left.

I may only have only a few days left.

But, I find myself hoping that I have made the kind of impact in life that you have most likely made, my friend.

Godspeed, and, if there is another side,.......see you there.

SaveAmerica

(5,342 posts)
99. There'll be peace when we are done... but
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 11:19 PM
Mar 2016

can I talk you into staying in that fight? Are there any Vet groups you can get with to try a new path? Message me if you'd like me to do any type of searching for any help you need. I'd be honored to spend as much time as you need doing that for you.

And I love your message for DUers to take care of each other. I've come here many times over the past several months looking for information to counter lies I see online (because DU was always the place where fact-checkers against GOP lies helped me stay informed) and was disturbed to find page after page of cat and dog fights against each other with no discussion of the crazy issue of the day. I hope that for you folks will tone it down and remember we're all on the same team.

Tarheel_Dem

(31,443 posts)
104. Paul, I am at a complete loss for words. This is a gut punch that I did not expect, and certainly..
Sun Mar 20, 2016, 11:54 PM
Mar 2016

won't recover from very quickly. You've been one of my most favored DU'ers, and I will try and take strength from the courage you've displayed here. That's all I can say on the subject right now. Much love and respect to you. Please know that you're in my thoughts, and in my heart.

joshcryer

(62,477 posts)
108. Always loved your posts Paul.
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 02:00 AM
Mar 2016

I'm so sad but we all have to see the piper eventually, so I'm just hoping you a comfortable journey.

brett_jv

(1,245 posts)
111. Hoping for a miracle cure for you ...
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 03:28 AM
Mar 2016

If not, let me wish you godspeed, and assure you ... ye will be missed.

OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
112. It's hard to find the words
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 03:32 AM
Mar 2016

I see by the other posts that you are much loved and respected. That makes me feel good that you know that.
All I can do is give you a virtual hug and say that I hope that I am as brave as you are when my time comes.

 

Surya Gayatri

(15,445 posts)
115. May the Cosmos enfold you in universal, unconditional and infinite love.
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 05:22 AM
Mar 2016

This too shall pass, but you will live on.

 

Betty Karlson

(7,231 posts)
123. No. Quote:
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 08:33 AM
Mar 2016

"my contributions were piss poor and I just had to apologize to [...] LGBT and everyone else I should have stood up for."

Emphasis mine. As I said: apology accepted.

Dustlawyer

(10,518 posts)
120. While we may disagree on our choice for POTUS, we proud,y represent the USW!
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 08:07 AM
Mar 2016

Wishing you well on your continuing journey!

DinahMoeHum

(22,481 posts)
133. Peace be with you, and let love call you home.
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 09:58 AM
Mar 2016
http://www.amidonmusic.com/online-choral-store/133-love-call-me-home

CHORUS:
Time, ferry me down the river, friends carry me safely over
Life, tend me on my journey, love call me home.


When the waters are deep, friends carry me over
When I cry in my sleep love call me home.

(chorus)
When the waters are cold, friends carry me over
When I'm losing my hold, love call me home.

(chorus)
When I'm weary and cannot swim friends carry me over
Open your arms and take me in, love call me home.

(chorus)
Take the gift I bring, friends carry me over
Deep within me life is singing, love call me home.

(chorus)
Life offers a chance for friends to carry us over
Time can stop or dance forever, love call me home.

(chorus)






Skinner

(63,645 posts)
135. This community is better for having you in it.
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 10:19 AM
Mar 2016

Thank you for being a DUer. I would be honored if you would stop by an haunt me sometime.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
138. Rest easy, brother.
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 11:57 AM
Mar 2016

Your fellow Marines, this Airman, and the whole of this country's veterans--our brothers and sisters--are proud of you.

cactusfractal

(550 posts)
139. Semper Fi, brother
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 12:03 PM
Mar 2016

I don't personally believe that there's a Heaven with streets for us jarheads to guard, and if there were I'd certainly be looking to skate out of eternal guard duty because - well, because skating out of guard duty is what terminal Lance Coolies like me do.

But you've fought a harder fight than most, staying true (and out!) to your liberal ideals when most of our brothers-in-arms call us commies or worse, just for believing that people are more important than profit.

Sir, I relieve you.



calimary

(84,144 posts)
141. Love you, great white snark.
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 12:55 PM
Mar 2016

Thank you for all your TREMENDOUS contributions - throughout. I hope you can somehow stick around, in the physical world, but otherwise, I wish for safe and gentle passage, into eternal Love, Peace, and the Light. Your presence in the world has left it a wee bit better than you found it.

Punkingal

(9,522 posts)
143. Peace to you, Paul.
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 01:39 PM
Mar 2016

I didn't know you here, but I wish I had. Your post is touching, and I am shedding a few tears. You are a brave man, serving as a Marine, and now facing your transition with courage. Bless you, fellow DUer!

DissidentVoice

(813 posts)
144. You're not a dumb Marine
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 01:47 PM
Mar 2016

I was in the Air Force, and despite the usually good-natured inter-service rivalry and ribbing I always respected everyone who served honourably - Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, Coast Guard, Active, Guard, Reserve and Auxiliary.

Not to mention that my uncle was a combat veteran Marine of the Korean War.

herding cats

(19,612 posts)
145. Peace be with you.
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 02:02 PM
Mar 2016

You've made this site better every time I read your words.

I'm truly saddened to hear of your battle with cancer.

orleans

(34,881 posts)
147. i have learned that one of the kindest things to say to someone who is departing this world is this:
Mon Mar 21, 2016, 02:21 PM
Mar 2016

it's okay to let go.

and it is.

unfortunately i did not offer those words to my dad. i was younger then, not very familiar with death and loss, and i could only think of what life would be like without him when it would have been more kind, more wonderful, more selfless if i would have considered him and what he was struggling with rather then telling him to hang on and keep fighting.

twenty years later i was able to tell my mom that it was okay to let go. but i understood, at that point, she had no choice; she couldn't hang on, she was too weak to fight, and there was nothing anyone could do to save her.

and although she did pass on--she has given me *plenty* of signs & notice that she is still near me. (which is always greatly appreciated btw)

before you go know 1. that you are loved, 2. that you will be missed, 3. that you will be remembered, 4. and the world is better for having you in it.

you don't have to fight anymore. it's okay. i believe everything is going to be okay for you. you're going to be fine--perhaps more than you can imagine.

sending you love.

 

workinclasszero

(28,270 posts)
153. God bless you
Tue Mar 22, 2016, 12:41 AM
Mar 2016

I don't know you but if Cha is your friend that's all I need to know.

From one vet to another I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your service to the country.

greatlaurel

(2,010 posts)
154. You are an inspiration to me. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with your DU family. Godspeed
Tue Mar 22, 2016, 12:36 PM
Mar 2016

You are a great person. We here at DU are lucky to have you here.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
155. Forgive this but have you tried sending your records to other cancer centers asking
Fri Mar 25, 2016, 08:26 PM
Mar 2016

If they have something to try? I would try Sloan Kettering in NYC and MD Anderson in Houston.

Still hoping for a miracle for you.

samnsara

(18,281 posts)
159. we tried...
Fri Feb 10, 2017, 07:45 PM
Feb 2017

...to get her elected. I hope you are still to here to read this. I am caring for my father.. a proud Marine....

ificandream

(10,416 posts)
162. Just saw this and it broke my heart ...
Wed Jan 26, 2022, 02:19 PM
Jan 2022

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Paul, a tip of the glass (I don't drink, but ...) to you, my good man. And if only we'd listened to you about Hillary. Sigh.

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