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Not Heidi

(1,508 posts)
Mon Feb 3, 2025, 06:30 AM Feb 3

So very homesick for Maryland

Before today, my avatar was the flag of The Golden State. I've changed it to that of Maryland.

I'm a native Californian. I lived in Maryland for 15 years, and I've been back home now for almost nine years.

I changed my avatar because, although I'll never move out of California again, I am deeply homesick for Maryland. There we lived in Waldorf, in a house that was built for us and which was perfect. It was on slightly more than an acre of land. Except for a decent space for a backyard, our land was in trees.

I was introduced to fireflies - glorious! - and almost cried the first time I saw them. They were beautiful, and I'd stand on the deck at twilight, waiting for the first firefly to appear.

I was also introduced to cicadas, which did not make me cry. If we were to enjoy our deck, I had to take a half a xanax, fearing that one might fly into me and land in my cleavage. I happened to live in MD for the appearance of the 17-year cicadas. Oh, my god, they were everywhere - as I'm sure most of you know. Somehow one of them got in through the cat door, but the cats killed it before I decided we had to move.

Coinciding with the emergence of the brood in 2013 was (apparently) the first bonus my DC employer* had ever distributed to staff. Fun fact: It became known as The Cicada Bonus.

Cicadas and DC law firms aside, I loved living in Maryland with all my heart. Returning to California broke my heart a little, but I had to come home. And I'm happy to be home, yet homesick for Maryland. Odd.

* A law firm which shall remain nameless

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So very homesick for Maryland (Original Post) Not Heidi Feb 3 OP
HEY, I'm a NEW YORKER living in Maryland! elleng Feb 3 #1
What took you to MD, elleng? n/t Not Heidi Feb 3 #3
DC for employment, and have lived in a few places here; elleng Feb 3 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author Not Heidi Feb 3 #2
Maryland Old Okie Feb 4 #5

elleng

(139,008 posts)
1. HEY, I'm a NEW YORKER living in Maryland!
Mon Feb 3, 2025, 06:45 AM
Feb 3

also in southern MD, Calvert County!

Weather's going back and forth now, between mild to cold, to warm, to who knows what, I live on the Patuxent River, and could not be happier!

elleng

(139,008 posts)
4. DC for employment, and have lived in a few places here;
Mon Feb 3, 2025, 02:55 PM
Feb 3

Calvert to be near daughter and grands, right on the river!

Response to Not Heidi (Original post)

Old Okie

(220 posts)
5. Maryland
Tue Feb 4, 2025, 01:14 PM
Feb 4

Okie by birth who lived in LA (Venice and Long Beach) for 9 years but have been in Maryland for almost 40 years and plan to stay. Not homesick for Oklahoma at all but I do miss California some times.

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