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Pretty sure my girlfriend is going to dump me tomorrow over lunch... (Original Post) Gravitycollapse Jul 2013 OP
I wish you peace, love, and new opportunities. ZombieHorde Jul 2013 #1
Sorry to hear that... Locut0s Jul 2013 #2
I guess it depends on who you talk to. But, from my perspective, she blew it... Gravitycollapse Jul 2013 #4
That's too bad... Locut0s Jul 2013 #6
Hope you are wrong. Keep us posted how it goes. patricia92243 Jul 2013 #3
Once you process all. you'll be closer applegrove Jul 2013 #5
Keep the long view on this... Pholus Jul 2013 #7
don't go. KG Jul 2013 #8
Without comment... Flashmann Jul 2013 #9

Locut0s

(6,154 posts)
2. Sorry to hear that...
Fri Jul 19, 2013, 03:17 AM
Jul 2013

Relationship been going roughly? On both sides or does it feel like it's a one sided problem? Either way I wish you the best of luck. That would be HARD for me to deal with right now and is never easy for anyone.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
4. I guess it depends on who you talk to. But, from my perspective, she blew it...
Fri Jul 19, 2013, 03:22 AM
Jul 2013

We had a really good thing going. She started backing away and tried to blame it on me.

Locut0s

(6,154 posts)
6. That's too bad...
Fri Jul 19, 2013, 03:27 AM
Jul 2013

I'm not one to talk to about relationships having never had one, lol, yet. But I know they can be frustrating and challenging. Life is hard enough when you have to deal with your own ego, emotions and baggage. Throw in another person whom you can't possibly ever read as well as you can yourself, and let's face it we don't even know ourselves that well sometimes, and well that's tough.

Like I said I wish you the best and hope it's not what you think. But if it is, try to look for a silver lining still!

applegrove

(132,223 posts)
5. Once you process all. you'll be closer
Fri Jul 19, 2013, 03:26 AM
Jul 2013

to knowing your perfect mate when you see them. Vibes to you.

Pholus

(4,062 posts)
7. Keep the long view on this...
Fri Jul 19, 2013, 07:29 AM
Jul 2013

If someone dumps you, they weren't right for you to begin with nor was their commitment to your relationship strong enough to stand the test of time. And every minute spent with someone who is not right for you is one minute less spent with the person who is right.

And those turns of fortune can happen remarkably quickly.

The most disastrous blind date of my life ended within two minutes when my date begged off with a migraine -- though she ended up confessing that she wanted someone over 6' tall and well I came up short on that one. I was so demoralized by the event that I swore I was done with putting myself out there -- it was time to just give up and rededicate myself to my work for a few months. The next night I went to a bookstore to treat myself in my new monastic existence where I met my wife of 15 years for the first time...

Good luck!

Flashmann

(2,140 posts)
9. Without comment...
Fri Jul 19, 2013, 08:24 AM
Jul 2013

Curtis Salgado

We fell in love
We tide a nod
We hold it tight
So I thought
Eventually landed on me
I guess she did
Said I was not good enough
To keep her satisfy
But that is a job stored .
She is gonna leave me take everything this disrespect opened up ym eyes
Looking back now I realize
She didn’t cut me loose
She set me free
She didn’t cut me loose
She set me free
Best thing that ever happened to me
She didn’t cut me loose
She set me free
I was broken heart that is a fact
I had to come back here to .taste some good love and change my attitude
. in my world since that day I met some beautiful girls
I count my blessings I look into the sky
I got to thank you it is great to be …
She didn’t cut me loose
She set me free
She didn’t cut me loose
She set me free
Best thing that ever happened to me
She didn’t cut me loose
She set me free
Ain’t no women in the world that knows to treat a man
They just wanna be loved and lord knows I can
. how life can be now that she is gone I got everything I need
She didn’t cut me loose
She set me free
She didn’t cut me loose
She set me free
Best thing that ever happened to me
She didn’t cut me loose
She set me free
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