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malaise

(292,170 posts)
Sat Dec 20, 2025, 04:44 PM Saturday

Just a reminder for those of you stressing yourselves out over Christmas

Next week this time it will be all over until next year😀

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Just a reminder for those of you stressing yourselves out over Christmas (Original Post) malaise Saturday OP
Yep, just roll with it...I've only got myself to take care of so I'll make a nice meal and relax... wcmagumba Saturday #1
Rec for the Ferrari next year😀 malaise Saturday #2
Not for me. underpants Saturday #3
Enjoy the drive home malaise Saturday #4
Fortitude Mr. Pants. Safe travels Billsdaughter Saturday #10
Then it's time to stress out over new year's resolutions. Emile Saturday #5
To work around everyone's schedule we had ours this afternoon. nt doc03 Saturday #6
Perfect malaise Saturday #16
K&R. You are a lifesaver malaise! bronxiteforever Saturday #7
There is some stress, but not from the holidays. We count our blessings. surfered Saturday #8
That is a serious injury malaise Saturday #17
I wish we focused on the full Twelve Days IbogaProject Saturday #9
Now I don't feel so bad.., OddMom20 Saturday #11
Thanks for reminding us Malaise... Billsdaughter Saturday #12
2025 was the year of the Snake; 2026 is the year of the Horse. hamsterjill Saturday #14
I'm a snake andcit certainly was not Billsdaughter Sunday #24
I love this thought!!! Hope22 Saturday #13
I used to love Christmas Grim Chieftain Saturday #15
I'm not feeling any stress over Christmas this year. Sogo Saturday #18
This year has been worse than previous years for stress Niagara Sunday #19
Now that is a lot of stress malaise Sunday #20
More than usual lol Niagara Sunday #21
Your youngest is the big one there malaise Sunday #22
Thank you, malaise Niagara Sunday #23

wcmagumba

(5,524 posts)
1. Yep, just roll with it...I've only got myself to take care of so I'll make a nice meal and relax...
Sat Dec 20, 2025, 04:48 PM
Saturday

No presents to buy, just food. I'll get that Ferrari next year....

underpants

(194,562 posts)
3. Not for me.
Sat Dec 20, 2025, 04:57 PM
Saturday

Last edited Sat Dec 20, 2025, 05:38 PM - Edit history (1)

I have a 9 hour drive to do Christmas and birthday in Georgia.

I’m in WV right now for a family Christmas party and dinner. We role no later than 6 AM tomorrow morning to get my daughter back for work.

As for our Christmas at home, i have one gift left to assemble for my wife. I’m off until the 5th.

surfered

(11,076 posts)
8. There is some stress, but not from the holidays. We count our blessings.
Sat Dec 20, 2025, 06:14 PM
Saturday

Our stress comes from my wife’s brother, who lives a thousand miles away, fell, broke his femur near the hip, and is not doing well. He is in ICU with complications. His son lives nearby, but the situation is grinding on my wife.

IbogaProject

(5,556 posts)
9. I wish we focused on the full Twelve Days
Sat Dec 20, 2025, 06:16 PM
Saturday

Rather than this rush and then it is over by 12/26 or 27. This time in December is supposed to be Advent with only preparations for the twelve day feast of Christmas.

OddMom20

(57 posts)
11. Now I don't feel so bad..,
Sat Dec 20, 2025, 06:28 PM
Saturday

I made an “advent like calendar” for a neighbor and I, counting down the days we have until Christmas is done. And both of us have 10 year olds, so this is an “adult” bit of fun. Not that I don’t appreciate Christmas - but this year was HARD for some reason.

We’re gonna make it, friends!

Billsdaughter

(123 posts)
12. Thanks for reminding us Malaise...
Sat Dec 20, 2025, 06:32 PM
Saturday

This year in particular has been so hard for so many.

Looking forward to a fresh start. At least psychologically.

2025 has worn me out.

Peace be with you.

hamsterjill

(16,908 posts)
14. 2025 was the year of the Snake; 2026 is the year of the Horse.
Sat Dec 20, 2025, 07:06 PM
Saturday

I read that the year of the Horse is going to mean forward and progressive movement. I'd like to hope that's what 2026 will be. We could all sure use some positive happenings.

Billsdaughter

(123 posts)
24. I'm a snake andcit certainly was not
Sun Dec 21, 2025, 01:34 PM
Sunday

my year. I hope the horse comes through for us. Giddyup!!!!

Hope 2026 is good for all.

Hope22

(4,418 posts)
13. I love this thought!!!
Sat Dec 20, 2025, 06:46 PM
Saturday

The one gift I ordered for grandson was coming from Nebraska to Ohio…..just got the notice it will be arrive in Costa Rica tomorrow. Lol, that thing is traveling by boat there and back and all I can think of is…..wish I were in that box! 🤣😁Sending wishes of peace to you!! ❤️🙏🏼

Sogo

(6,949 posts)
18. I'm not feeling any stress over Christmas this year.
Sat Dec 20, 2025, 10:35 PM
Saturday

Had a nice luncheon with work friends on Friday.

Just finished a batch of Christmas cookies that I'll take, along with a lasagna, to a more informal gathering of friends tomorrow.

On Christmas Day, I'll drop by a neighbor's open house for tea and cookies and probably caroling.

That's it for me this year.

Oh, and watching a lot of football....


(Family is at a distance, and some not well enough to have guests, and I'm not into traveling by air to see the others.)


Wishing everyone a happy holiday!!

Niagara

(11,371 posts)
19. This year has been worse than previous years for stress
Sun Dec 21, 2025, 09:11 AM
Sunday

A few hiccups:

1. My youngest step-son had heart surgery on December 2nd. He's young but was born with a bad valve in his heart. He's doing great but it was a terrible time for this surgery to be scheduled right before the holidays.


2. I place artificial poinsettias in my Christmas tree. For some reason my tree looked a little sparse this year with the artificial poinsettias. I went to the dollar store and couldn't find any exact replacements. There was another customer in this store and she starts talking to me and suddenly start yapping about politics. It was weird and we didn't align politically. I made an excuse that it was getting dark and I needed to get home.


3. I sent a package (through USPS) to Indiana on December 8th. As of yesterday, it still hasn't arrived. The tracking says it's still in transit.


4. I sent another package (through USPS) to Indiana on December 16th. This package arrived at it's destination on December 19th.


5. Yesterday, I went to the post office to inquire about the package that I shipped on December 8th. They said that I was the third person that day to inquire about a package to be delivered in Indiana. They said that there's something terribly wrong with the Indianapolis USPS processing plant and that they don't even pick up the phone when regular post offices reach out to them.


6. I have to make holiday desserts for myself at some point today. I can't eat like everyone else and so all of my desserts are made with special ingredients.


7. I only have one job to do tomorrow so I will make and bake gluten contaminated and high carb homemade desserts for everyone else tomorrow after I get out of work.




I hope that you have a lovely and enjoyable holiday, malaise!






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