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debm55

(54,583 posts)
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 10:13 AM 21 hrs ago

This , that or the other. What do you put on the top of your tree---a star, an angel, nothing, or I don't do trees.

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This , that or the other. What do you put on the top of your tree---a star, an angel, nothing, or I don't do trees. (Original Post) debm55 21 hrs ago OP
This year a star. 🌟 Polly Hennessey 21 hrs ago #1
Thank you very much, Polly Hennessey, for sharing with us. debm55 21 hrs ago #3
When we did trees we put an Angel on top TommieMommy 21 hrs ago #2
Thank you very much for sharing with us, TommieMommy. debm55 21 hrs ago #4
Angel. Aristus 21 hrs ago #5
What a beautiful post, Aristus. Thank my friend for sharing. debm55 20 hrs ago #6
We are both agnostics but I love Christmas for the tradition and beauty and he does too. lark 20 hrs ago #15
We decorate our tree with lights, ornaments anciano 20 hrs ago #7
Thank you very much, anciano, for sharing with us. debm55 20 hrs ago #9
When I put up a tree, I had an angel the last few times. MIButterfly 20 hrs ago #8
Thank you very much, MiButterfly, for sharing with us. debm55 20 hrs ago #10
i wrapped some rope lights around the two coconut palms in our front yard. iscooterliberally 20 hrs ago #11
Thank you very much for sharing with us. iscooterliberally. debm55 20 hrs ago #17
We have a crocheted snowflake on top of our little tree. Lars39 20 hrs ago #12
Thank you Lars, That sounds beautiful. debm55 20 hrs ago #18
Since 2018 SCantiGOP 20 hrs ago #13
HAHAHHAHA. Thank you very much for your unique tree toppers. debm55 20 hrs ago #19
For the past 10 years we've used the same white and gold angel - she's beautiful! lark 20 hrs ago #14
Thank you very much for sharing with us, lark. It sounds beautiful. debm55 20 hrs ago #20
This year, one Christmas tree top is butt-nekkid EYESORE 9001 20 hrs ago #16
Thank you very much, EYESORE 9001 debm55 20 hrs ago #21
No tree this year. Husband diagnosed with Alzheimer's and will be moving from hospital Ziggysmom 19 hrs ago #22
Thank you very much, Ziggysmom. I will add you both to my prayer list when I say my nightly rosary. I understand what debm55 19 hrs ago #24
Thank you, Deb. I will also pray for you and your husband. Praying for all the good Ziggysmom 8 hrs ago #63
Thank you my dear friend, Ziggysmom. debm55 8 hrs ago #65
A blue lady cow hand puppet displacedvermoter 19 hrs ago #23
Thank you very much, displacedvermoter. Do you have and animal themed tree? debm55 19 hrs ago #25
Lots of little stuffed animals, many handmade from Central and South America displacedvermoter 19 hrs ago #27
Thank you very much displacedvermoter. It sounds beautiful. debm55 19 hrs ago #28
It is a kinda ratty little artificial tree displacedvermoter 19 hrs ago #30
Those ornaments from Central America are so colorful and brightly painted. I love them debm55 18 hrs ago #40
I have 2 popup trees . they come with bows at the top. Srkdqltr 19 hrs ago #26
Thank you very much for sharing with us, Srkdqltr. It sounds beautiful. debm55 19 hrs ago #29
no way am i gonna stand on a stool... samnsara 19 hrs ago #31
I understand. samnsara, your tree sounds wonderful , just like you. debm55 18 hrs ago #41
Sock monkey my husband made. He does the tree decorating. Nanuke 19 hrs ago #32
Thank you very much Nanuke for sharing with us. debm55 18 hrs ago #37
A 3-D stained glass star Jilly_in_VA 19 hrs ago #33
Thank sounds beautiful, Jilly_in_VA. Your tree sounds wonderful. debm55 18 hrs ago #38
We put up a Hello Kitty tree topper. cloudbase 19 hrs ago #34
Thank you , cloudbase for sharing with us. Hello Kitty---Do you have cats? debm55 18 hrs ago #39
Yes. cloudbase 17 hrs ago #42
And who will be first to get to the Hello Kitty topper? debm55 17 hrs ago #43
I have a very elegant Waterford crystal tree topper which we have not used in several years. 3catwoman3 18 hrs ago #35
Thank you 3catwoman3. Your son's tree topper sounds so beautiful, Made with the heart and hands of a child debm55 18 hrs ago #36
Rudolph! Glad I bought it before The Vermont Country Store discontinued it. rsdsharp 16 hrs ago #44
Thank you very much, rsdsharp. I order from them too. debm55 16 hrs ago #45
one tr4ee has an angel. another has one of those pointy things . AllaN01Bear 15 hrs ago #46
Thank you Bear. They sound lovely. debm55 15 hrs ago #47
I have a star that has lights in it. OldBaldy1701E 13 hrs ago #48
Very nice OldBaldy1701E. Very nice tree and the star is beautiful debm55 10 hrs ago #50
I have red Christmas bells Niagara 11 hrs ago #49
Thank you very much Niagara. Very beautiful tree.Love it. debm55 10 hrs ago #51
My tiny year round tree has a star on top... wcmagumba 10 hrs ago #52
Thank you very much, wcmagumba. I have a small table top tree that I leave out all year and decorate monthly. Your tree debm55 10 hrs ago #54
We've had a few different tree toppers over the years. Diamond_Dog 10 hrs ago #53
That sounds lovely Diamond_Dog. I love your white and gold themed tree. I also love how you put up your children's debm55 10 hrs ago #55
I've always had a Santa from 1924. My mom got it for her first Christmas. catbyte 10 hrs ago #56
Beautiful post, catbyte. I am sure your goddaughter loves it. debm55 10 hrs ago #57
A starfish shell. chowder66 9 hrs ago #58
Thank you very much for sharing with us, chowder66, Do you carry out a nautical theme for the rest of your tree? debm55 8 hrs ago #60
Sometimes. I have all kinds of seashells as ornaments. chowder66 7 hrs ago #70
Thank you very much, Chowder66, Sounds like a unique and beautiful tree. debm55 7 hrs ago #73
A construction paper star that my niece made for me when she was 5 dflprincess 9 hrs ago #59
Thank you very much, dflprincess. What a sweety is niece is. Handmade gifts from a child are so precious. I'm glad you debm55 8 hrs ago #61
The first star we had lasted nearly 50 years before finally giviing up. It was a multi-color star. patphil 8 hrs ago #62
Thank you for sharing with us, That sounds beautiful. And your wife's Nativity set sounds wonderful. You and Mrs. debm55 8 hrs ago #64
Didn't you just post a thread saying Christmas isn't Christmas with a Christmas tree? BlueSpot 8 hrs ago #66
I think she means "nothing, I don't do trees" is one of the options. johnp3907 7 hrs ago #68
You are correct john3907. debm55 7 hrs ago #72
BlueSpot. I gave the readers 4 choices angels, stars. nothing. I don't do trees. Meaning the reader doesn't put up a debm55 7 hrs ago #71
Bird! johnp3907 7 hrs ago #67
Oh, I love it . Thank you so much for sharing with us. johnp3907 debm55 7 hrs ago #69
Santa hat berniesandersmittens 5 hrs ago #74

Aristus

(71,501 posts)
5. Angel.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 10:23 AM
21 hrs ago

My family has always put an angel on the top of the tree. Mrs. Aristus' family always put a star. I'm the one who puts up the tree and all of the decorations every year, so we have an angel. Interesting for me and Mrs. Aristus; an angel, a tree, and even a Christmas celebration: we're both atheists. We both came from strong Christian backgrounds. Mine, liberal; hers conservative. But we're done with all that now. We can celebrate the birth of a devoted teacher of peace, forgiveness, and grace. But we don't make a divine deal out of it.

lark

(25,829 posts)
15. We are both agnostics but I love Christmas for the tradition and beauty and he does too.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:12 AM
20 hrs ago

We moved to a street where more people decorate for the seasons so now hubs' very interested in our house adding to the festivities. He's putting up a lot more lights and ornaments outside since we moved. I've always done the house and treee decorations but am still adjusting to a 1900 sq ft house from a 2500 sq ft house, so still experimenting with the placemment of my red Santa collection and my Santa Village. A new challenge!

anciano

(2,124 posts)
7. We decorate our tree with lights, ornaments
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 10:28 AM
20 hrs ago

and strands of tinsel, but don't put anything special on the top of the tree.

MIButterfly

(1,825 posts)
8. When I put up a tree, I had an angel the last few times.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 10:30 AM
20 hrs ago

It was a pretty angel with colors that would shine on the ceiling.

iscooterliberally

(3,148 posts)
11. i wrapped some rope lights around the two coconut palms in our front yard.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 10:47 AM
20 hrs ago

It's a rental house so I'm not into putting too much effort into anything house related. They do light up our dark street quite nicely though.

SCantiGOP

(14,644 posts)
13. Since 2018
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:05 AM
20 hrs ago

I have topped our tree with my MAGA-red cap
that reads IMPEACH, except for the four years of Biden when an angel that used to be on my parents’ tree took over again.

lark

(25,829 posts)
14. For the past 10 years we've used the same white and gold angel - she's beautiful!
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:06 AM
20 hrs ago

Before her, we always had stars. I like her better!

EYESORE 9001

(29,400 posts)
16. This year, one Christmas tree top is butt-nekkid
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:15 AM
20 hrs ago

I’m not in charge of Christmas decorations, however, so I didn’t question it.

Ziggysmom

(4,002 posts)
22. No tree this year. Husband diagnosed with Alzheimer's and will be moving from hospital
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:24 AM
19 hrs ago

to a memory care facility. I’ll spend the holidays with my two kitties and a box of Kleenex.
Praying all goes well. I cared for him as long as I could, until he became aggressive and it was dangerous to both of us.

Treasure your loved ones everybody. It’s cold and lonely without them.
Thank God for all the great folks here on DU ❤️

debm55

(54,583 posts)
24. Thank you very much, Ziggysmom. I will add you both to my prayer list when I say my nightly rosary. I understand what
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:35 AM
19 hrs ago

you mean. My husband has Malignant Cancer of the Prostrate. This past week I took him to the ER as he was very sick. They told us that the radiation he had in the early Fall can effect him. I worry to. Please take care of yourself too my friend, You are loved. deb.

Ziggysmom

(4,002 posts)
63. Thank you, Deb. I will also pray for you and your husband. Praying for all the good
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:13 PM
8 hrs ago

people here on DU.

displacedvermoter

(4,066 posts)
23. A blue lady cow hand puppet
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:26 AM
19 hrs ago

Her dress hangs down over the tree top and she looks down gently on all the other animals on the tree.

displacedvermoter

(4,066 posts)
30. It is a kinda ratty little artificial tree
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:47 AM
19 hrs ago

And we talk about replacing it each year, but once we get it decorated, we love it.

Srkdqltr

(9,271 posts)
26. I have 2 popup trees . they come with bows at the top.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:40 AM
19 hrs ago

Used to have an angel , and before that a gold pointed ornament.

samnsara

(18,708 posts)
31. no way am i gonna stand on a stool...
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:48 AM
19 hrs ago

..so I have a Golden Retriever Guardian Angel that is nestled amongst the boughs half way up the tree. Its my only decoration. I have a brand new pre lit tree decorated only with the lights and candy canes

Jilly_in_VA

(13,728 posts)
33. A 3-D stained glass star
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:54 AM
19 hrs ago

My husband made it years ago, before I met him. Our tree is all animals and angels of various kinds.

cloudbase

(6,135 posts)
34. We put up a Hello Kitty tree topper.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 12:21 PM
19 hrs ago

I don't understand the attraction, but HK is one hell of a franchise.

debm55

(54,583 posts)
43. And who will be first to get to the Hello Kitty topper?
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 02:01 PM
17 hrs ago

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3catwoman3

(28,437 posts)
35. I have a very elegant Waterford crystal tree topper which we have not used in several years.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 12:34 PM
18 hrs ago

Instead, we use a handmade topper that our younger son made in either kindergarten or first grade. Very simple - a TP tube wrapped in foil, and a paper star sprinkled with gold glitter. It's a little beat up as our younger son is now 33, so the ornament is at least 25 years old, but that's OK - it's a sentimental favorite because of who made it.

debm55

(54,583 posts)
36. Thank you 3catwoman3. Your son's tree topper sounds so beautiful, Made with the heart and hands of a child
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 01:04 PM
18 hrs ago

OldBaldy1701E

(9,908 posts)
48. I have a star that has lights in it.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 06:04 PM
13 hrs ago


(This was at the old house. We don't have a tree ourselves, so the star is now sitting in the window.)

Niagara

(11,334 posts)
49. I have red Christmas bells
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 07:27 PM
11 hrs ago

These red bells go with my Victorian Christmas tree theme.


I use to have an angel tree topper but I left it behind years ago.


debm55

(54,583 posts)
54. Thank you very much, wcmagumba. I have a small table top tree that I leave out all year and decorate monthly. Your tree
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 09:00 PM
10 hrs ago

sounds very nice.

Diamond_Dog

(39,587 posts)
53. We've had a few different tree toppers over the years.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 08:55 PM
10 hrs ago

Recently it’s been a capiz shell and gold star. I like to do up my tree all in white and gold. In addition to the homemade ornaments my kids made when they were small.

debm55

(54,583 posts)
55. That sounds lovely Diamond_Dog. I love your white and gold themed tree. I also love how you put up your children's
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 09:03 PM
10 hrs ago
ornaments made from the heats and hands of a child.

catbyte

(38,518 posts)
56. I've always had a Santa from 1924. My mom got it for her first Christmas.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 09:07 PM
10 hrs ago

It's adorned the top of my trees until this year when I moved and downsized my stuff, so I have a very small tree this year. I passed the Santa along to my goddaughter because I don't have kids and now Santa is topping her tree,

debm55

(54,583 posts)
60. Thank you very much for sharing with us, chowder66, Do you carry out a nautical theme for the rest of your tree?
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 10:49 PM
8 hrs ago

chowder66

(11,733 posts)
70. Sometimes. I have all kinds of seashells as ornaments.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:46 PM
7 hrs ago

I have a fake 6 foot tree that has pinecones and berries. Over the last few years I've really liked just having soft white lights on it and the starfish shell at the top. I put a light in the shell which makes it glow.

dflprincess

(29,123 posts)
59. A construction paper star that my niece made for me when she was 5
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 10:00 PM
9 hrs ago

because she thought it was awful that I didn't have a star at the top of my tree.

She'll turn 40 in March.

debm55

(54,583 posts)
61. Thank you very much, dflprincess. What a sweety is niece is. Handmade gifts from a child are so precious. I'm glad you
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 10:53 PM
8 hrs ago

Kept it.

patphil

(8,628 posts)
62. The first star we had lasted nearly 50 years before finally giviing up. It was a multi-color star.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:10 PM
8 hrs ago

The one we've had for the last 3 years is a beautiful white star...more like the traditional star over Bethlehem.
I expect it will out last us.
We also have a 19 piece ceramic nativity set that my wife made in 1971. She hand painted each of the pieces. It also will outlast us.

debm55

(54,583 posts)
64. Thank you for sharing with us, That sounds beautiful. And your wife's Nativity set sounds wonderful. You and Mrs.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:16 PM
8 hrs ago

Patphil are blessed to have each other.

BlueSpot

(1,240 posts)
66. Didn't you just post a thread saying Christmas isn't Christmas with a Christmas tree?
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:22 PM
8 hrs ago

And now you're saying you don't do trees?

I am so confused.

debm55

(54,583 posts)
71. BlueSpot. I gave the readers 4 choices angels, stars. nothing. I don't do trees. Meaning the reader doesn't put up a
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:56 PM
7 hrs ago

tree. I am sorry it was confusing I do put up at table top tree.

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