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JMCKUSICK

(4,774 posts)
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:35 PM Nov 28

Rory has passed away.

I am so overwhelmed with gratitude that you all gave me the opportunity to go and say thank you, to share how important he was in my life, to be able to hold his hand, to hug him, and to say Good bye while he could hear me.
That you gave me the opportunity to create truly magical, final memories has me weeping in gratitude, to be given the opportunity to pay homage to my best friend to do everything in my very best capacity, personally, not some guilt ridden long distance wish i could've been there thing.
You helped me be there for him when he needed and wanted it most, you helped me see his easy smile, one of his last laughs, to see him at his very best, instead of at his worst.
You are God, You are Miracles, You offer such Grace, You offer such Empathy, You give such Love.
On behalf of all of us that You bless so selflessly every day DU,
Thank You.
Love, John

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Rory has passed away. (Original Post) JMCKUSICK Nov 28 OP
I am so glad you had such a dear friend & that you had such a meaningful visit together SheltieLover Nov 28 #1
Thank you SheltieLover, I appreciate that. JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #5
Ty, John. I appreciate you, too. SheltieLover Nov 28 #8
I am sad for you over your loss of Rory. You brought him great joy in his final days. May he RIP. Nanuke Nov 28 #2
Thank you Nanuke, JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #6
I'm So Sorry Deep State Witch Nov 28 #3
Hear hear, JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #18
So sorry on the loss samplegirl Saturday #47
My condolences. Dear_Prudence Nov 28 #4
Thank you Dear_Prudence JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #19
I am so sorry JM Diamond_Dog Nov 28 #7
Thank you Diamond_Dog JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #20
I am so sorry, John. May the memories of Rory forever be a blessing to you, debm55 Nov 28 #9
Thank you Debbie you e been so sweet. JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #21
So very sorry for your loss, John Grim Chieftain Nov 28 #10
They are very special Grim Chieftain, and I treasure them all. JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #22
My condolences on the loss of your friend. sinkingfeeling Nov 28 #11
I have no words. I am so sorry. Scrivener7 Nov 28 #12
Thank you Scrivener7, JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #23
I'm sorry for your loss JM. Rory... Clouds Passing Nov 28 #13
Thank you Clouds Passing, JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #24
I'm so sorry JM sdfernando Nov 28 #14
Very true and yes, every moment was cherished. JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #27
I'm so sorry for your loss Danmel Nov 28 #15
Thank you Danmel, they surely will. JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #32
May his memory be a blessing to you. Ziggysmom Nov 28 #16
Thank you Ziggysmom JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #33
I'm so sorry for your loss cate94 Nov 28 #17
It really has helped with closure, thank you Cate94 JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #34
Rory was lucky to have you; and you he. Thank you for your expression of gratitude Maraya1969 Nov 28 #25
You all were such a big part of his "Last Miracle". JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #35
My Condolences Dorothy V Nov 28 #26
Thank you Dorothy V, JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #36
Rest in Paradise, Rory Niagara Nov 28 #28
He surely deserves to Niagara. Thank you. JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #37
Wishing you peace, John. biophile Nov 28 #29
Thank you Biophile JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #38
I'm holding you in my heart tonight. lapucelle Nov 28 #30
Thank you Lapucelle 😭 JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #39
Oh, no. I am so sorry. He will live on in your heart and now in ours. I feel as if we knew him LoisB Nov 28 #31
Thank you LoisB JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #40
You and Rory were so blessed to have each other and to love with such infinite kindness and strength. wordstroken Nov 28 #41
Thank you so much for your important words Wordstroken, JMCKUSICK Saturday #45
May he be at peace. Holding you in love and light. niyad Nov 28 #42
Thank you so much Niyad JMCKUSICK Nov 28 #43
I'm sorry for your loss MustLoveBeagles Nov 28 #44
Thank you MustLoveBeagles, JMCKUSICK Saturday #56
Hugs malaise Saturday #46
Thank you Malaise. JMCKUSICK Saturday #57
Condolences,JMCKUSICK gademocrat7 Saturday #48
Thank you Gademocrat47 JMCKUSICK Saturday #58
deepest condolences onethatcares Saturday #49
They are, thank you so much Onethatcares. JMCKUSICK Saturday #61
💧❤️ littlemissmartypants Saturday #50
My sympathies on your loss. CrispyQ Saturday #51
(((💐))) Deuxcents Saturday #52
Rory has returned IbogaProject Saturday #53
So sad. I am sorry for your loss. pandr32 Saturday #54
My dear JMCKUSICK--I am so sorry to hear your sad news today. CaliforniaPeggy Saturday #55
Memories are blessings, too. marble falls Saturday #59
I agree and I have plenty, including our last visit. JMCKUSICK Saturday #62
🫂 mwmisses4289 Saturday #60

SheltieLover

(75,574 posts)
1. I am so glad you had such a dear friend & that you had such a meaningful visit together
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:43 PM
Nov 28

I am here for you if you need to chat.

Nanuke

(887 posts)
2. I am sad for you over your loss of Rory. You brought him great joy in his final days. May he RIP.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:44 PM
Nov 28

Diamond_Dog

(39,456 posts)
7. I am so sorry JM
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 01:46 PM
Nov 28

As was stated above, I am glad you were able to be with him in his last hours and say goodbye.

Wishing you Peace and Strength.

sdfernando

(5,983 posts)
14. I'm so sorry JM
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 02:31 PM
Nov 28

I know you will cherish those final memories. It was a gift to both of you that you could be there!

Peace to both of you

Danmel

(5,658 posts)
15. I'm so sorry for your loss
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 03:17 PM
Nov 28

May sweet memories of your beloved friend bring you comfort and peace.

Dorothy V

(431 posts)
26. My Condolences
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 04:54 PM
Nov 28

Rory and you were so blessed to have each other. Those blessings continue and will touch you every day for the rest of your life.
Love never ends.

JMCKUSICK

(4,774 posts)
38. Thank you Biophile
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 07:09 PM
Nov 28

I have mountains of treasured memories that will walk with me my remaining days.

LoisB

(12,150 posts)
31. Oh, no. I am so sorry. He will live on in your heart and now in ours. I feel as if we knew him
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 06:29 PM
Nov 28

too. May The Universe welcome him with open arms and may Rory have eternal peace.

wordstroken

(1,400 posts)
41. You and Rory were so blessed to have each other and to love with such infinite kindness and strength.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 09:23 PM
Nov 28

Now, as you build a strong foundation of new love and caring among our DU family, Rory will forever stay in your memory and in your heart.

And thank goodness you have Petunia and Cuddles to give you their special kind of up-close-and-personal comfort and warmth and love that only animals can give.
💕 💖

Love you, John

🦋 wordstroken

JMCKUSICK

(4,774 posts)
45. Thank you so much for your important words Wordstroken,
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 06:48 AM
Saturday

To be reminded of the continuity of not just life, but the energies, the fulfillment of one promise creating new ones, etc...
Thank you and we love you too.

IbogaProject

(5,492 posts)
53. Rory has returned
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 10:42 AM
Saturday

That is how my Korean friend says they speak of this transition. And that their memorial style is to have an upbeat party in joyous celebration that the person would enjoy.

pandr32

(13,690 posts)
54. So sad. I am sorry for your loss.
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 11:27 AM
Saturday

May you have wonderful memories enough to lift your spirits and lots of hugs from us all.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,908 posts)
55. My dear JMCKUSICK--I am so sorry to hear your sad news today.
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 11:30 AM
Saturday

How wonderful that you were there, that you had the chance to say goodbye, to laugh, to weep, to show your deep love. Please take care of yourself as you pass through this deep grief.

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