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enough

(13,454 posts)
4. I think you know already, because you're asking.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 06:22 PM
Sunday

Unless they trashed the place on purpose, the hurricane makes for exceptional situations. Be glad you have a vacation home where someone could take shelter.

lostnfound

(16,629 posts)
10. I somewhat feel that way; however, their presence there was a month after hurricane
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 06:34 PM
Sunday

I mention the hurricane because housing is in short supply in the region.
But i have a friend who kindly let a person stay in her house “for a week or two”, and two years later the person (who pays nothing) is trashing the place, not moving, threatening her, and swearing at her in the street… Apparently it will be a long process to get her out.

That is happening in the same county.

hlthe2b

(106,326 posts)
6. Are they gone now? If not can you help them obtain help?
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 06:23 PM
Sunday

Unless you think they are nothing but scammers, I would be inclined to see what alternatives there are, but don’t delay…

Irish_Dem

(57,309 posts)
7. We don't have enough info to make a decision.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 06:28 PM
Sunday

Are they still there
Did they do damage.
Intent and back story, why are they there.
Criminal and civil history.

What are they saying to you.
How did you find out.

Context is everything in this situation.

lostnfound

(16,629 posts)
11. Neighbor chased them out, contacted me..
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 06:36 PM
Sunday

And he called the police.

I don’t know the people who moved in. They broke a window to get in, and left a mess.

I sort of wanted to know the pros and cons of pressing charges.

haele

(13,520 posts)
12. If they're still there, press charges.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 06:45 PM
Sunday

Or have a lawyer go over there and serve them with an eviction notice.
In the old days, I might have gone over with a lawyer over to take a look at the situation, and if they didn't seem to be drifters or scammers trying to take over your house, might offer them a reasonable/affordable short term lease so they could get their acts together and pay for any repairs, cleaning, utilities and legal you're going to go through to get them out of there in a timely manner.

But..the days of being nice and giving the benefit of the doubt are gone, especially since Sovereign Citizen scams and slacker squatter culture is increasingly popular amongst nihilists and cynics.

Haele

lostnfound

(16,629 posts)
14. Drifters and scammers...and apparently trump supporters
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 05:45 PM
Tuesday

If they have a sad story, it wouldn’t stop me from feeling sorry for them.
But dang, i sure do feel icky.

mnhtnbb

(32,057 posts)
15. Offer to buy them bus tix to Mara Lago
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 12:12 AM
Yesterday

And suggest they get their orange $hit bucket to find them a place to live.

Seriously, if they broke into your house, and won't take responsibility for damages, press charges.

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