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underpants

(196,627 posts)
Mon Apr 6, 2026, 10:10 PM Monday

We got a call from the VA today "I'm here from the government and I'm here to help"

I’ve posted over the weekend that my 90+ stepfather had a fall and cuts on his hand/arm on Friday. He’s the first of three generations of Marines. He, Mom ❤️, and I spent the weekend working out getting in and out his chair, getting in bed (a lot of pain), etc.
I’m leaving out location details for privacy.

He’s a Marine. I was a Cav Scout. There’s mutual respect on many others things but we don’t agree on a lot of things ….but there’s Mom ❤️. That’s unanimous.

Everyone from the first responders to neighbors to the hospital filling a pain prescription (that he refused on Friday - stubborn) on Easter Sunday when EVERY other pharmacy was closed to just everyone were great.

Mom got a call this morning at about 9:00 from the VA. A “catch up” call from the weekend.
Tomorrow or Wednesday at home they will have:
A physical therapist
A nurse to address wound dressing, meds, bathing, hydration, etc.
An occupational therapist to go over getting in and out of bed and bath.
— Me: “Occupational therapist. Good. It’s about time this deadbeat got a job” —- He laughed.

A “Home Maker Program” person AT HOME 1-3 times a week.

THEN at 1:00 we got another call. They’ve reviewed the chart and there’s no referral for an Orthopedic Surgeon. My Mom said she’d prefer he not to have to get in a car and travel 90 minutes to the VA center. “No problem, we’ll get this local through the hospital” The same hospital that filled the Rx on Easter.

Community- their bank heard what happened and are going to see about someone coming 1-2 a week so Mom can take a break and get whatever she needs done done.

My spirit is uplifted. He’s doing much better. He can get out of his chair to the walker because ….he’s a Marine…..and Mom ❤️.
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LoisB

(13,088 posts)
3. Stories like this renew one's hope for humanity. There really are some good
Mon Apr 6, 2026, 11:05 PM
Monday

people out there. I am so happy for your family.

Jacson6

(2,029 posts)
4. I have orthopedic problems and appreciate the VA community medical help instead of having to drive 220M to LA. n/t
Tue Apr 7, 2026, 12:03 AM
Yesterday

Bluejeans

(153 posts)
5. Call the DAV and get some help to make sure your step-dad is getting all the benefits he's entitled to receive
Tue Apr 7, 2026, 12:25 AM
Yesterday

Go this page on the Disabled American Veterans web site, enter your zip code and you'll get the contact info for the nearest DAV office. Call and ask to speak to a National Service Officer. An NSO can help you make sure your step-dad is getting all the medical, home care and other VA benefits he's entitled to receive. The DAV helped me obtain my benefits including one I barely knew how to obtain.

https://www.dav.org/get-help-now/va-benefits-help/

Tell your step-dad an Air Force chief says, "You're tougher than woodpecker lips!" That'll put a smile on his face!

---- A retired Air Force chief master sergeant and lifetime DAV member.

Shellback Squid

(10,096 posts)
6. The VA can be wonderful but I've found being
Tue Apr 7, 2026, 01:05 AM
23 hrs ago

more proactive with them than regular health insurance, they don't have the bean counter for every approval.

I worry about Doug Collins, I have PACT act approval, Biden era

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