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edhopper

(34,773 posts)
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 09:44 AM 18 hrs ago

Do things that are self-fulfiling

I was going to write a post on how fucked we are and the useless idea that we, as individuals, can somehow fight this.
But instead I thought I would write about coping. This is what I am doing.
I have turned off the News and am not obsessively following every stupid, ridiculous, catastrophic thing he does. (I am keeping an eye from a distance just to know what is happening in general)
And then I try to do things that are self-fulfilling. Watch movies and shows I like, read entertaining books. Take walks and exercise.
I have no illusions of him being stopped and see the worse happening, so I plan to stay nimble and hope to react to minimize how bad all this will hit me and my family. This would include everything from moving things in my 401K to leaving the country.
In the mean time I will not go down the rabbit hole abyss of following the minutia of what TSF is doing. All his plans are bad. All his picks are the worse possible people.
Take care of yourselves, hope those with actual power can push back some, and in 2 years, maybe we can do something.

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Do things that are self-fulfiling (Original Post) edhopper 18 hrs ago OP
Self-care and enjoying family, friends and life in general is how we beat the fascists Fiendish Thingy 18 hrs ago #1
thank you for not writing how fucked we are The Wandering Harper 18 hrs ago #2
Fascists want you to feel isolated or alone Qutzupalotl 18 hrs ago #3
That's the thing edhopper 17 hrs ago #5
It's more than just talking about it. Qutzupalotl 17 hrs ago #7
I don't feel isolated edhopper 17 hrs ago #8
Thanks. Post like this help me figure out what I'm Mike 03 18 hrs ago #4
I haven't had TV for about 10 years. usonian 17 hrs ago #6
I spend my time preparing for catastrophic climate change Kaleva 17 hrs ago #9

Fiendish Thingy

(18,506 posts)
1. Self-care and enjoying family, friends and life in general is how we beat the fascists
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 09:47 AM
18 hrs ago

It keeps us resilient to fight on.

2. thank you for not writing how fucked we are
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 09:55 AM
18 hrs ago

those threads are depressing and demoralizing
and I'm way more fucked than most people on this board seem to be
but I'm not doom and glooming about it

Qutzupalotl

(15,146 posts)
3. Fascists want you to feel isolated or alone
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 09:59 AM
18 hrs ago

so you will submit to their authority more easily. A good way to counter that is to meet your neighbors, and join or form a group, such as Indivisible, SURJ, or the ACLU. Just having a network of real-life contacts is a hedge against authoritarian overreach.

All the things you mentioned are important too. Take care of yourself.

edhopper

(34,773 posts)
5. That's the thing
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 10:27 AM
17 hrs ago

I DO NOT want to sit around and talk about this. I have friends that only want to talk about what HE is doing. I think that is the way to a dark place. I know millions of Americans are not on board with his agenda. But to immerse yourself in this fiasco is a way to feel depressed and lost. I don't want to live in a permanent state of dread.

Qutzupalotl

(15,146 posts)
7. It's more than just talking about it.
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 10:42 AM
17 hrs ago

You can actually do something about it. Forming or joining groups is doing something about the authoritarian's tool of isolationism.

You said we as individuals cannot fight this, and that is true. But collectively we can. Look at the Solidarity movement in Poland.

Mike 03

(16,770 posts)
4. Thanks. Post like this help me figure out what I'm
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 10:11 AM
18 hrs ago

going to do. This is generally my plan too. I'm not setting hard and fast rules yet; it's been remarkably easy to jettison CNN and MSNBC. DU and SiriusXM's Progress channel are providing me a lot of comfort right now. Take good care of yourself.

usonian

(13,772 posts)
6. I haven't had TV for about 10 years.
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 10:40 AM
17 hrs ago

The rare time I find it and turn it on (for football games), it's jarring the way it imposes itself on you. And the football sucks, but that's another matter.

I scan DU for helpful and fun items, with about 4 phone screens of filter/trash keywords. Going to the home page, where nothing is filtered, is well, jarring.

The other news source is Hacker News, but that's mostly for techies. I have been using The "Trump Trump" safari extension and it works well. But I have to use one of those fake "Trunp" search terms to do web search,

Needless to say, I do heavy ad-blocking.

With all these, I really get to choose what to read, without something driving a nail into my brain. And I am extremely well-informed. It's not burying my head in the sand; it's picking my head up from the mud puddle.

I just read today an article I saw in Hacker News (it has all kinds of posts, so I get a bit challenged to expand my scope) from some ad agency. Talk about understanding your enemy! Well, it said

"Human attention is the most valuable resource in the industry nowadays, and it's absolutely mispriced in the industry," Provinciali said. "Which creates a fantastic opportunity."

(and of course, give us money to exploit it)

That's "IT," folks. There is a war going on for your attention.
That's why "they" flood the zone.
Time spent on them is time you don't spend helping friends and family, and organizing. Worst of all, in doomposting.

Do ya see how well that worked just this month?

DU is the best social networking tool we have so far.
A launchpoint for focused and united efforts for social justice.
Working on it.
I got some great insights. Stay tuned.

Kaleva

(38,157 posts)
9. I spend my time preparing for catastrophic climate change
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 11:06 AM
17 hrs ago

Which is very likely to happen regardless of what takes place in the political world here in the US.

I may not make it but if I do go down, I'll go knowing I gave it my best shot.

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