Sex Parties? Anyone here ever been to one?

[MineralMan]

I haven't. I've never even known of one. So, are they common? I mean do people go to places where women are hired to have sex with the attendees?

What kind of deal is that? I guess Matt Gaetz is familiar with them. Maybe they're popular in his circles. How strange!

Anyhow, it seems to me as though people who attend such parties are not part of regular society. If they were, I'm sure I would have heard of at least one such party in my 79 years.

Is this normal? Is Matt Gaetz normal? Is that behavior acceptable by society?

Maybe I'm just naive or something. Out of touch.

[Elessar Zappa]

1. I was in an orgy once, when I was in college.

Does that count as a “sex party”?

[Demsrule86]

63. Yes.

[AkFemDem]

2. Google "key party" ;-)

[underpants]

6. There's actually a reference to that in Ron Howard's "Grinch" movie

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[Omnipresent]

15. Matt Gaetz was in that movie.

All’s they did was apply a little makeup to his face and he blended right in!

[underpants]

3. Happens every week

at least that’s what I read in this magazine.

[meadowlander]

4. If they're all consenting adults, then I don't think it's anyone else's business what they want to do.

I'm not here to judge and kink-shame and decide what's "normal for society".

I'll leave that to the conservatives.

If he slept with a minor or any of the contact was non-consensual, that's the only element that I think deserves public scrutiny.

[FSogol]

5. I'm at one right now!

[MayReasonRule]

12. My Honey And I Have Our Own Private Sex Parties...

Our record was 3 hours after she consumed an edible...

Sex is natural sex is good.

[bpj62]

33. One of the best songs ever

Not everybody does it, but everybody should.

[MayReasonRule]

35. Damn Skippy!!!

[EYESORE 9001]

22. Glad to see you've got some fingers free for texting

[kozar]

31. If , you are at one, right now,

And can post.
You're doing the party, wrong.

Sarcasm intended,



Koz

[Maru Kitteh]

52. Pictures - or it never happened

[PeaceWave]

7. Now I'm confused as to the purpose of this site.

[MineralMan]

18. Politics. We discuss politics.

The nomination of someone to be Attorney General of the United States is a political appointment. Politics.

[MayReasonRule]

29. Sex Parties Are Being Discussed So As To Investigate The Prevalence Participation And Acceptance Within Our Society

Sex is natural sex is good.

Supplying minors with drugs and having sex with minors is not good.

There is a substantive difference.

That is what I perceive is under discussion.

Happy Tuesday by the way!
Seize your day and laissez bon temps rouler!

Don't let the bastards get ya' down!

[MineralMan]

34. Your reply sounds like something from an AI text generator.

The topic is Gaetz.

[MayReasonRule]

37. Lol.. The Topic Is Gaetz Having Sex With Minors At A Sex Party And Paying Hookers To Attend And Supplying Cocaine

So, are they common? I mean do people go to places where women are hired to have sex with the attendees?

So yeah...

The topic is Gaetz my friend...

The surrounding topic that the post is inquiring about is sex party participation from members of this forum.

So as to get the 'lay of the land'... so to speak.

Innocuous discussions of human sexuality are just a part of the discussion 'at hand'.

Happy Tuesday...

Back to gardening for me...

About to put the skins on our multi-layered back yard hot-house.
We'll put a compost pile in to assist with heating through the winter.

They're a blast...

[CTyankee]

46. This is a far cry from the message I got from my parents: your body is a temple...

Yeah, that one. Did you get that sex ed lecture, too?

full disclosure: I got a copy of "Our Bodies, Ourselves" for my kids for those questions they didn't wanna ask. It was pretty well worn after a while. I loved that book.

[MayReasonRule]

58. Lol... Happy To Report We Escaped The Abrahanic Blood Cult In Which We Were Reared...

Sad to report that we and our daughter are the only ones that have...

Sigh...

[PCIntern]

67. Your body IS a temple

and I’m spending as much time as I can in the basement.

[debm55]

59. I agree with you Mineral Man. Maybe it's the folks I hung out with but in my 69 years I have never heard of one or had

the desire to attend one. I guess I am an odd ball.

[ChicagoRonin]

8. There's a lot of porn featuring such parties

I don't know if that stuff is actually staged with actors, but there is a lot that looks like it was made on a home video camera or cell phone.

And though I hate to pigeonhole any particular group, there is a lot that looks like obnoxious frat boys at a state school in Florida or somewhere similar.

(Yes, I was a young man once and watched such stuff)

[Dennis Donovan]

9. I've been to a Sex Farm

[mzmolly]

10. Not I.

I guess I'm out of touch, too.

[LizBeth]

11. Wealthy/powerful men have been doing it from beginning of time.

[MayReasonRule]

14. Lol, As Have Wealthy Powerful Women - Nothing Wrong With Sex Parties As Long As Each Is Of Age And A Willing Participant

Laissez les bon temps rouler!!!

[LizBeth]

17. Seriously? Bothism... fug

[MayReasonRule]

20. I'm At A Loss To Decipher Your Intended Meaning... I Did Due Diligence... I Still Don't Know...

Bothism is a marketing philosophy that encourages a more flexible approach to media channels and the idea that different marketing approaches can work together more effectively. The term was coined by Mark Ritson.


fug
/fəɡ/
noun informal•British
noun: fug; plural noun: fugs

a warm, stuffy or smoky atmosphere in a room.
"the cozy fug of the music halls"

[mzmolly]

26. Sounds like quite the sense of entitlement.

Imagine if Kamala Harris had sex with a teenaged boy at a party on a table and paid others for sex. WTF kind of bizarre bullshit are we excusing, because it's a 'wealthy powerful man' we're discussing?

[PeaceWave]

13. You mean like the couple who attended a swing party in BDSM gear only to find...

that they'd actually been invited to a swing dance festival?

[Babajida]

43. omg

[dweller]

16. NYT story last week

https://archive.ph/Fkw2b

Traveling for a Cuddle, or More, at European Sex Parties



✌🏻

[EYESORE 9001]

19. The seventies were quite inventive

I’ll leave it at that.

[MayReasonRule]

21. Lol, Every Generation Is 'Inventive" In That Way... We're All Human Afterall...

Here's to human ingenuity...

[EYESORE 9001]

27. We all thought we were like Magellan

but, as Shakespeare said, there’s nothing new under the sun.

[MayReasonRule]

30. Damn Skippy... You're Dead On Point!

The more things change the more they tend towards staying the same...

And, there's nothing as constant as change.

[Pacifist Patriot]

23. It's like a gender reveal, right?

[EYESORE 9001]

28. But without the glitter

Although there may be sporadic explosions 💥

[BlueTsunami2018]

24. When I was young and playing in my band, sure.

Every weekend was sex, drugs and debauchery. We didn’t pay any of the girls though, they were all willing participants. It was a lot of fun.

If you have to pay, you’re a loser.

[blm]

25. Madison Cawthorn said he was invited to them by fellow lawmakers.

GOP leadership made him walk it back.

[Marigold]

32. I remember that

And everyone said he was crazy. Then he was gone after they posted a picture of him in lingerie and pearls. Wonder what they have on Lindsay Graham?

[madinmaryland]

50. Mitch McConnell was involved. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[Deep State Witch]

65. Yeah, That Requires Brain Bleach

Putting "Mitch McConnell" and "sex" into the same sentence requires brain bleach. I'll bet that he and Elaine retreat to different parts of the mansion at night.

[intheflow]

36. I know of swingers parties in my area.

I don't participate, but a friend of mine does. To hear her talk about it, it's like a potluck with other married/fat people, with sex for dessert. It's sounds wildly unsexy to me, but to each their own. No one pays for sex at these things. Everyone is a willing volunteer.

[PeaceWave]

40. Willing volunteer or willing guinea pig?

[intheflow]

44. I have no idea what this even means.

[Emile]

38. No

[LAS14]

39. Glad you asked. It's remarkable how different people live...

... in totally different social worlds. I'm like you, never a hint or a whiff of any such goings on. Although I can see the building where a prostitution ring was headquartered that, for some reason, made the national news.

[Sympthsical]

41. Every gay man studying the ceiling hard right now

Isn't that just a Friday in one's 20s?

I'm (mostly) kidding. But it's not exactly a scandalous or unheard of thing in my world. I've been. They're interesting enough for what they are, if you're into that sort of thing. And there's always bathhouses. Not really into that sort of thing myself these days. Settled down into more of a partner, cats, and movie type sort. But I'm also middle aged now.

(Not that that matters. I have middle aged friends who are still doing that stuff)

Depends who one asks. And yes, I've known straight friends, men and women, talk about various gatherings they've attended.

The Internet's a busy place for arranging things.

[FreeState]

47. Right there with you

Hell most the bars I use to go to had black out rooms etc. Sniffies and some gay dating apps can be like a sex party map.

[Sympthsical]

48. I've been doing this sneaky thing lately

Whenever SNFs come up (skilled nursing facilities), I call them sniffies.

Then I see who laughs.

[FreeState]

49. Haha

That’s hilarious. It’s like hearing the grinder message noise - there is a whole TikTok based on asking random men what app makes that noise.

[Sympthsical]

51. The gay boyfriend reaction videos to the sound are pretty great, too

[Babajida]

42. Yes

I don't see them as a big deal unless minors or money is involved. OTOH I want the thought of sex and Matt Gaetz days and days apart

[intheflow]

45. Replying a second time because I need to add:

You leftist elitists and your disgusting habit of not attending sex parties and/or sleeping with minors. Obviously the Republicans have the high moral ground over us.
















Also: , for the sarcasm-impaired among us.

[JohnSJ]

53. I suspect MTG has.

[keithbvadu2]

56. Would MTG tattle on herself? She of tantric sex and proud adultery.

MTG Threatens To Expose "Secret Sexual Payoffs" By Republicans If They Release Matt Gaetz's Ethics Report

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100219741114

[elleng]

54. I guess I 'fergit!"

(KIDDING, I'm all around socially conservative.)

[no_hypocrisy]

55. I dropped by the home of The Pope of Pot in the 80's the day after his orgy.

There had to be at least 24 mattresses on the floor of his parlor.

[Blue Full Moon]

57. The republicans do. At least here in Ohio they do.

[Cirsium]

60. Does this count?

I played in a sextet at a party.

More than once, if truth be told.

[usedtobedemgurl]

61. I have, as has my hubby.

There are many different types of sex parties.

You can go to SLS (swingers lifestyles) and find local orgies and such. We have only gone to social public gatherings from there. Meeting up in public.

The things we really have done are going on Bliss Cruises. They are swingers cruises. There are private sex parties in rooms. We have done those. One had a sex swing someone brought on board. Those were fun. From attending those, we were invited to a private house party up in Washington. I will get to that later.

On the cruise, they have one level full of cabanas. You can do whatever you want. You can have sexual relations by yourself or with a partner.... Or two or three....or more. You can close the curtains so things are private and off limits, but people can hear. You can leave curtains open and just have folks watch, or you can invite them or they can ask to join. They also have a dungeon on board. I have seen sex happen there. My partner and I are also kinky. We are probably not into what the average person is. We have cleared out whole parts of a room with some things we have done. But that is kink and not sex or swinging.

The cruise has one whole deck where you can females put in public. A lot of private room invitations happen in those areas.

There are nudists resorts where people also participate in the swinging lifestyle. There is a particular one we visited on Florida's west coast, on our way to a swinger's cruise. It was cool to be in a resort where you can be naked 24/7, as long as you were on resort grounds. The resort has hotel rooms for visitors, and they also have homes where people live year round. We picked up a guy in one of the pools. We also ran into a woman called dragonfly (I believe she has a website) who was on a Salinger's cruise. She is a relationship specialist. She gave presentations on the cruise and at the resort.

Then there are house parties. The one we attended in Washington was interesting. I know the guy holding it was in government, but not a senator or congressman. It was a swinger party but a fetish swinger party. It was for bigger women. Before the party ever started, I had a foursome with the host, his friend and my husband. Three guys can be a lot of fun!! I had a small bit of trouble at the party. The host set out rules that there was to be no touching without consent. A guy came up and slapped me on the butt. I went off on him. A woman in the middle of sex with someone else said he could slap her butt when she was done! Wow!!! Anyway, everyone else was fun and respectful.

The one thing I have not spoken of is drugs. The only drugs I saw used on the cruise were ed drugs. Guys walked around with 24/7 hard-ons. This does not mean folks did not use drugs, I just did not see it happen. Most of the folks on the cruises drank 24/7. That was a turn off for us. If you are drunk, you cannot consent.


I did not see anyone underage in any place we were.

[Demsrule86]

62. In the mid eighties...I was freshly divorced. And on my first date in four years, The

guy who was an insurance agent took me to a house where an orgy was in progress...I was a naive girl from Connecticut...college student. I immediately ran upstairs and locked myself in the bedroom (no one was there as the coke was in a big bowl downstairs; I could never do it because of ADHD)...called my brother who came and got me. They want me to 'relax' and go with it...no f'ing way and that was during aids too.

[Polybius]

66. Damn

Ya know, since your name is Demsrule86, all this time I just assumed that you were born in 1986.

[LiberaBlueDem]

64. I never heard of Epstein either

but they say he and trump were good friemds