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nightwing1240

(1,996 posts)
Fri Dec 30, 2022, 06:17 AM Dec 2022

Man breaks into school and shelters nearly a dozen people from blizzard

As a deadly and historic blizzard barreled through Erie County, New York, last weekend, some residents found themselves in a dire scenario – stranded in howling snow with nowhere to go, their cars dwindling in gas supply with police unable to come to the rescue.

Among those trapped last Friday was Jay Withey, a mechanic in the town of Cheektowaga who had ventured out to help a trapped friend, but instead got caught in the snow himself. Over the course of the night, he would be turned away by several people he begged for help, eventually committing a final act of desperation to save himself and at least 10 others from the brutal storm.

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Withey said he went to ten households, offering each $500 to spend the night on their floor. All of them turned him away. “I plead with them, ‘Please, please can I sleep on the floor, I’m in fear for my life,’ and they say, ‘No I’m sorry’,” he said.

Feeling defeated, Withey tried to walk back to his truck, but became lost in the blustery wind and thick snow.

“My vision is getting foggy, my body is cramping up, and I’m fearing for my life,” he said.

Link https://www.cnn.com/2022/12/30/us/blizzard-new-york-rescue-school-break-in/index.html (much more there)
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What an act of heroism. There have been other stories relating to those that died in the storm. This is one with a happy ending.

edited to correct the link

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Man breaks into school and shelters nearly a dozen people from blizzard (Original Post) nightwing1240 Dec 2022 OP
Terrible I could never deny anyone shelter. Duncanpup Dec 2022 #1
this no doubt sounds bad Skittles Dec 2022 #6
I can't even imagine saying no. IrishAfricanAmerican Dec 2022 #19
.... Skittles Dec 2022 #2
Just did, thank you :) nightwing1240 Dec 2022 #3
Skittles I would take you in yet I'd hide the good silverware Duncanpup Dec 2022 #4
HAR Skittles Dec 2022 #5
Americans have become fearful and mistrusting. Irish_Dem Dec 2022 #7
Angels among us. calimary Dec 2022 #8
What's wrong with those people? ananda Dec 2022 #9
This is lost on those belittling the migrants in the border underpants Dec 2022 #10
I would have let him in, though I am a single male with no kids dsc Dec 2022 #11
i live in the mtns where power stops right after my house..i have had many people bang on my samnsara Dec 2022 #12
It would be a very difficult choice to allow a stranger(s) in your home nightwing1240 Dec 2022 #13
we hear stories about the folks who let stranger in...reality check dembotoz Dec 2022 #14
I will post that should I come across it nightwing1240 Dec 2022 #15
Wow. A microcosm of the world, I guess. Joinfortmill Dec 2022 #16
I, personally, could not turn away anybody who is trying to stay alive in a blizzard. secondwind Dec 2022 #17
i am glad he finally found shelter for himself and 10 others in the school dawn5651 Dec 2022 #18
I can see both sides of this cannabis_flower Dec 2022 #20

ananda

(35,144 posts)
9. What's wrong with those people?
Fri Dec 30, 2022, 07:11 AM
Dec 2022

Mary and Joseph were turned away too.

This country is so fucked!

underpants

(196,493 posts)
10. This is lost on those belittling the migrants in the border
Fri Dec 30, 2022, 07:35 AM
Dec 2022

on Christmas Eve let alone Abbott’s stunt. Seriously there’s no connection in their minds.

dsc

(53,396 posts)
11. I would have let him in, though I am a single male with no kids
Fri Dec 30, 2022, 07:44 AM
Dec 2022

if I were a single female with little children, I can see being worried. I am not sure I would be too hard on someone in that situation saying no.

samnsara

(18,767 posts)
12. i live in the mtns where power stops right after my house..i have had many people bang on my
Fri Dec 30, 2022, 08:18 AM
Dec 2022

..door needing help as they did something stupid with their car in the deep snow. I always let them in so they can use the phone, warm up etc. I give them coffee or hot cocoa and food if they are hungry. By the time they reach my house a cpl of them had hiked for miles from the hills. Even the dang UPS guy ran off the road and I had to sheltered him til a tow truck came.

But I can surely see... if the occupants were elderly or alone...not letting any one in who may have to live there for days and days.

nightwing1240

(1,996 posts)
13. It would be a very difficult choice to allow a stranger(s) in your home
Fri Dec 30, 2022, 08:23 AM
Dec 2022

But given the circumstances, I doubt I could have turned these people away. That does not make me a better person. I just know for myself I would have problems knowing I could have helped and something bad happened because I did not.

 

dembotoz

(16,922 posts)
14. we hear stories about the folks who let stranger in...reality check
Fri Dec 30, 2022, 08:25 AM
Dec 2022

whole bunch of other folks did not.

perhaps we need to hear those stories as well

nightwing1240

(1,996 posts)
15. I will post that should I come across it
Fri Dec 30, 2022, 08:29 AM
Dec 2022

You may as well. With all the bad in the world I like to point out something good.

secondwind

(16,903 posts)
17. I, personally, could not turn away anybody who is trying to stay alive in a blizzard.
Fri Dec 30, 2022, 08:59 AM
Dec 2022

And I am not a young person. I simply could not live with myself, seeing all the snow pouring down, and having turned away someone...

dawn5651

(774 posts)
18. i am glad he finally found shelter for himself and 10 others in the school
Fri Dec 30, 2022, 09:17 AM
Dec 2022

jay is a hero who should be honoured for his bravery...to those that refused to take him in...tears mean nothing..

cannabis_flower

(3,932 posts)
20. I can see both sides of this
Fri Dec 30, 2022, 11:37 PM
Dec 2022

I think a solution would be to say “I want to see your driver’s license and I want to call my sister and give her your name and license number”. That might seem mean but bad people can and do take advantage of situations to do terrible things. Better safe than sorry.

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